| Name: amie 101-1 | Date: May 24th, 2008 9:06 AM |
| ok i really need help, two of my friends are pregnant and 11-14 one is in the 6th grade and the other is in 7th ............ i cant get them to face their parents and the longer they wait the more i worry about them they are stating to miss school and i don't think it is that big of deal to them either because they brag about it and i don't think thats cool i am so scared and i am not even pregnant so please help me help them ↑ |
| Name: kkarli | Date: May 29th, 2008 5:59 PM |
I totally understand how you must be feeling i was in the same boat as you.
I was 15 when i found out i was already 4 weeks pregnant. My stepdad is A HUGE CHRISITAN he was youth pastor and everything and so is my mom. I told my mom and she freaked and so did my stepdad. but the thing is honestly i know you're scared i waited 2 weeks after i found out before telling them. You have to tell them though,easier than said but you need prenantal care and such. further down the road they will accept it believe me. i didnt think mine would either i mean it takes a while but now my daughter will be 5 months on may 31st and my mom always visits me and everyone is so supportive. I go to church like you and they've really been amazing i mean some people have different views on what i should of done but no one really looks down on me and trust me like i said further down the road they will get use to it. of course there going to be hurt and disappointed because this isnt obviously what they saw for your life but obviously god did and as long as you pray and such things will get better. but for right now you have to tell them. ↑ |
| Name: sebastians mommy | Date: Jun 16th, 2008 7:45 PM |
| Hey Jessie, I so understand what you mean... I am 15 and in march gave birth to Sebastian... MY bf is 19 and when i found out i was pregnant, i cried for about 3 hours.. my bf and i didn't know how we were going to tell my mom. my parents are divorced but my dad is a cop and omg he wanted to kill us.. but he didn't know until i was about 8 months pregnant. YOur parents are involved with the church so i think most likely they will lean towards the wwjd thing and accept and forgive. If not, dont take it personally, it just means they aren't as christian or catholic as they say they are. Life changes, and if GOD thinks you are ready for a baby then thats what you get, A baby, they will have to accept it sooner or later. I think they will be more against an abortion then the fact you are haveing a baby out of wed-lock and the fact that you are 13. You should tell them. Pregnancy is one thing I couldn't do without my mom. she has been through it and she can be your best friend at least through this. ↑ |
| Name: alleybowbow | Date: Jun 19th, 2008 12:29 AM |
| I can only imagine what you might be going through, but I think it is a wonderful thing that you are speaking out. There is an international help center called birthright and they are extremely supportive, it's a good place to go when you feel you don't have anyone to talk to. Besides that, parents love their children no matter what. It is really important that you talk to your mom and/or dad about this. You might find great consolation and support in your parents. Although I am not a Christian myself, I grew up in church and learned that God forgives all sins and Jesus does not condemn sinners, but offers forgiveness and love. Here is a link to Birthright's website, please consider calling their hotline for help and support. ↑ |
| Name: alleybowbow | Date: Jun 19th, 2008 12:30 AM |
| I forgot to post the site, here it is: http://www.birthright.org/ ↑ |
| Name: debbiea12 | Date: Jun 27th, 2008 4:13 PM |
| if you would like to talk email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:13 PM |
doesnt it suck?
i mean really doesnt it??
having too try too hide it and stuff.
im 13 too and also pregnet..
my dads not a pastor or anything like that but when he finds out hes gonna be so mad! ill be grounded forever! ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:19 PM |
| And that was ment for jessie.. but if any of you would like too talk too me about your young pregnecy i would love too talk..its always nice too have some one too talk too you thats going through the same thing.. so my email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:19 PM |
| It doesn't suck you need to man up and tell your dad, its not about being ground forever, that's the least of your worries you need to tell him so he knows and can help you, may be after you decide what your going to do with your baby you will learn to take the proper precautions and not have sex at 13!!!! you shouldn't have sex unless your old enough to have SAFE sex!!! I hope you know who the father is! ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:23 PM |
| Zoey? u must not be in my situwation but ur sure as heck being reud.. their aint no need for u too say anything if ur gonna be negative.. and i do know who god is.. hes helped me so much in life! we do use condoms or whatever but it busted..and ive been with him for almost a year so dont be thinkin i give it up..im in love with him and i wanted too share something as special as that with him! ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:29 PM |
| Im not trying to be rude, im telling you how it is, thats good that you were using protection, but you should also use a back up plan ie birth control or spermicide. That's great that your going to keep the baby, but you guys need to tell your parents so they can help you, babies are very expensive and very time consuming and at 13 you still have soo much school to do, your sill in middle school!! Just tell your families, they will be mad at first and yes your gonna get in trouble but the sooner you tell them the better, you need to go to the drs. and get on prenatal vitamins asap!! ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:36 PM |
| Zoey, i was on birth controll and got off of it about 2 months ago.. and the fact of the matter is the pregnecy test said i wasnt pregnet but im getting pains in my stomic that i have never had before.. and im pushing out more into a baby belly then like fat or whatever.. but have only gained like 2 pounds.. but yah.. so thats y i dont want too tell my parents.. and i could go too the doctor most anytime i needed too.. with out them.. i have some older friends that would take me and stuff... but yah ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:38 PM |
| it keeps saying its a duplicate post?? how do i send what i need too say too u zoey? ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:38 PM |
| oh nevermind it worked. ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:40 PM |
well if your a few weeks pregnant then your not showing yet, most people dont show till they are around 18 weeks pregnant give or take, for me it was about 20 weeks before i was showing.
how far along are you and does your BF know? ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:42 PM |
| I would be about a month pergent i guess so.. we have had sex for 4 months now though.. at least 15 times...so could i of gottin pregnet those times??and just be feeling the pains now? ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:44 PM |
| if you can go to doctor or whatever whenever you want then why don't you go and find out whether or not you ae pregnant? if you are you need medical attention. being pregnant means that you have to take vitamins and have reguar checkups. you will need to be watched even more closely because you are so young. your body is not finished developing so being prgnant already is VERY hard on it. i had a friend who got pregnant at 14 and it was a lot of work for her to just because to carry the baby to term because she was sooo young. ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:45 PM |
| and YES my boyfriend does know.. hes very supporative in anything like that.. a matter a fact hes always their for me when i need him i know were young but hes going too be an amazing father.. hes got a little sister and every time i go over their he always plays with her.. and she loves me she asked me if i would be her sister.. i thought it was 2 sweet.. but yeah.. ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:49 PM |
| lacirrom,i have not gone because i have been busy.. but its a health clinic not a doctor...or helth department whatver u call it.. but every time i can get a ride im doing something else.. at the end of this month though.. i will be going too the health dep. with my friend james.. hes very nice about that stuff. but i am on my period its just not heavy does that mean anything? and me and my boyfriend had sex yesterday and i started too bleed more heavy and he said he felt something like in me that he doesnt usually feel. but it had been about 3 or 4 weeks sence we had had sex. ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:50 PM |
| and i wanted too know how old lacirrom and zoey is.. or if yall are around my age or moms urselfs or what?? ↑ |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:56 PM |
| and if any of u guys have a myspace..then ask me for my email and u can add me .. ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 5:57 PM |
okay 1 i'm 25 yrs old, married 6 yrs and i have 3 kids.
2 i'm willing to bet any amount of money that you are NOT pregnant ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 6:00 PM |
| Name: lyssa bug | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 6:02 PM |
| then y am i getting sharp pains?? ↑ |
| Name: lacirrom | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 6:43 PM |
| i'm not a doctor and i say that you should go to the doctor if you think there is soemthing going on but imo i think you are 13 and wanna make some drama like all 13 yr olds do and thats what is bringing on these sharp pains ↑ |
| Name: zoey9810 | Date: Jul 16th, 2008 7:09 PM |
Yes i have a my space im 20 married to my husband Chris who is 25 we have one kid, Tyler hes 14months old! we live in FL
my myspace is www.LaurenDonaldson.com it will take you directly to my page you can add me from there!
You normally dont get pains that early on, and you said your bleeding?? its prob your period acting funny because you just got off birth control,
and he wouldn't feel any thing inside you till you were later in your pregnancy when they baby has dropped,
and your weight gain isnt because of pregnancy, you wont gain weight till later on about the time you start to show
i would go to the health clinic to get a blood test to see if your really pregnant or not. but Im not sure you are, it doesnt really sound like it.
ohh and my name is lauren by the way! ↑ |
| Name: mariah | Date: Jun 18th, 2009 8:00 AM |
| well dont kill yer self ↑ |
| Name: Help_Please | Date: Jul 7th, 2009 1:14 AM |
| i dont know what to do im 14 and pregnant and i know who the dad is he said he was 18 but he's really 26 what am i going to do i just wanna die im only a kid ↑ |
| Name: KC1420 | Date: Jul 12th, 2009 9:13 PM |
Help_Please
if you consider adoption please contact me at [email protected]
KC ↑ |
| Name: scaredjess | Date: Dec 27th, 2009 10:54 PM |
| i feel for you. i might too be in this situation soon. i am 13, and have recently started being sexually active with my boyfriend, whom is a year older than i. i have skipped a period and am very scared. if my period doesnt come in another three days, i am going to get a test. i feel that if i am pregnant, i will have an abortian. i wouldnt want to spend the rest of my childhood with a child. ↑ |
| Name: i love my baby girl | Date: Mar 30th, 2010 12:37 AM |
| just found out Im pregnant and bout to be 13 in July i dont kno how to tell my parents but my boyfriend is excited to become a daddy ↑ |
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