Hi sweetie sorry to hear of your situation. Although i'm not 15 i am going
through this pregnancy on my own. My advice is to just sit her down and tell her you need her love and support at this time. She will probably
be angry but stay strong and know you not alone in this, no matter what she says or does. ↑ |
| My mom was really mad, but she suppoted me through out the whole pregnancy. The sooner you tell her the better, because you won't feel that much stress. Hope every thing turns out good. ↑ |
| Leann, I was only 15 when i found out i was pregnant with my first child also. I understand how it feels to not know how to tell your mom. Just sit her down and tell her you need to talk to her mother to daughter. Yes, she is gonna be mad after you tell her and she may say things but in time this will pass. Tell her how much you need her and her support. Talk to her about what you want to do, how you would take care of your baby and finish school. It is possible. I did it pretty much living on my own. If i can i have faith that anyone can do it. If you need to talk to someone a little more one on one you can email me at [email protected] or i.m me on yahoo at Lilhottybaby2005 or on aim at USCGSurfRbaby. I'm here for you if you need someone. Good luck and wish the best for you and your mom. Make sure you get the proper prenatal care that you and your baby need also. ↑ |
| Leann, im not 15 but im am 21 and i was scared to tell my mom i thought she would be upset that my fiance and i are not married but she was happy the best thing to do is tell her before she finds out from someone else that would really break her heart it might be hard at first but she'll get past the shock hopefully. Have a friend or a brother or sister be around to tell her if you dont want to do it alone.. Dont worry hun thinks will work out for the better.. good luck! ↑ |
Hey leann, I'm 21, well 20 when I found out I was pregnant. Even at my age I was scared to tell my mom I was pregnant. But whats done is done. Its only normal If your mom gets upset, crys, or asks those strange questions such as "how did this happen?" I always loved that one LOL! This is my first child, a Lil girl. I can only imagine how it would hurt for her to tell me she was pregnant. Your mom sees it as... My baby is having a baby. Understandable. And for some reason all mothers think to themselves.. How did i let this happen? Sit your mom down, Approach the situation as an adult. Be strong, Be honest, let her know you want her help and support and most of all guidance in the situation. We all want that. Give her, her time to be upset or confused. When she has time to think about it, she will realise, regardless shes your mother, she loves you and she will not want you to go through this alone. Try not to wait too long though hun. Ultimately It is YOUR decision. You know you better than anyone. If you need to talk at anytime you can contact me:
smile_bebegirl (yahoo)
naudyprincesa (aim)
or email me at [email protected]
Your not alone sweetie. ↑ |
