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Name: worried
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i think i might be pregnant me and my husband have been trying for awhile and im 2 weeks late and im having alot of sympytoms...im 16 and im afriad i want a baby so bad but im worried about something happening and i just need people to tell me there storys to help me
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Name: sweetie | Date: Nov 7th, 2005 10:50 PM
What are you worried about? If you are two weeks late you could be pregnant but you are soooo young your periods might not be regular yet. Sweetheart... You are only 16!!! I you sure you and your husband are ready for a baby? 

Name: heather | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 2:17 AM
you cant just say "your only 16" to just anyone. i have a friend that is 17 and married and she is a very mature person. not everyone that wants things to happen sooner in life are bad things. some people grow up faster. im 18 years old and im 6months pregnant but ive done my parting and being drunk and sex and all that, ive already experienced that. i think that you should see a doctor and get a prego test, why are you married anyways? i mean, its not a bad thing, im jw. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 2:27 AM
im married cause i love my husband and we wanted to get married.
im worried about it hurting or something happening to the baby 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 2:50 AM
my husband already has a son and we both really want a baby 

Name: heather | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 4:20 AM
i dunno if you have read this before, but when you have sex 1 time a week, it increases your chances of getting pregnant. when you have sex 3 or more times a week, it lowers your hubbys sperm count by 41%. so try to keep it to once a week or so...if your hormones can handle that..lol...and also, sometimes your blessing comes when you least expect it. good luck. hey, and by the way...if you wanna chat sometime, i have aim or yahoo messenger, my sn on both is sekcmix. 

Name: chelsie to heather | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 4:26 AM
yeah i dont think i could handle that lol we have sex like 3 times a day and i dont think we could handle cutting back....weve only been married a month so once a week would kill us 


Name: sweetie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 6:27 AM
Ladies... first of all I'm 30 yrs. old and this is my FIRST pregnancy and most people mistaken me for 20 yrs. old. I met my husband later in my life... I have a young heart and I love life. I'm NOT putting you down chelsie ... certainly not because you got married and love someone or because you are 16 or 17 years old. I'm only worried about balance in your life. Sex 3 times a day and wanting a baby soooo bad sounds like you have no time for anything else life has to offer! Enjoy marriage... enjoy getting to know this new person... enjoy getting to know who YOU are and what you are about and what YOU want out of yourself! YOU need to offer this baby your experiences NOT your inexperiences. It's hard enough taking care of yourself in this world and learning how to make decisions with the person you've committed to in life-- and to add a baby to the mix-- PLEASE work on yourself and your own passions so that when you DO have babies you have so much of life to offer them! IF you can control your desire to have a baby you will be a better mother if you just wait alittle longer. You don't have to wait 10 years-- but I promise you that if you look at the past 4 years of your life you have grown soooo much... now imagine what 1 or 2 more years will get you-- the stronger you are the better for your baby. Put the baby before you or your husbands needs or wants. Finally, don't just ignore what I wrote, you will do what you want to do and that is okay... just open your mind to my point before you rush into anything to fast. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 5:14 PM
people tell me im rushing all the time...and i actually did want to wait a while befor i got pregnant so we decided we wouldnt think about it and just let what happens happen and since we tryed for a year and i didnt get pregnant we thought maybe something was worng so we were gonna wait a year then go to the doctor but now it happened so theres nothing we can do. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 8th, 2005 5:43 PM
if i find out im not pregant we are gonna wait a year or two so i can get a job so we can save up some money and get in to a bigger house but if im pregnant now its to late. 

Name: bluff | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 12:42 AM
i dont think u r married. how did u get married at the age of 16. do u want to be preggo? 

Name: heather | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 1:51 AM
you get married at the age of 16 with the consent of a parent or guardian and in some states its a legal age anyways. i thought people knew that and no that person is not me im just commenting. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 1:56 AM
in michigan 16 is the legal age to get married with a parents consent so my mom signed the papers and i got married and yes i want a baby i want a baby more than anything in the world and i dont care what other people think about it 

Name: Sylvia | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 3:45 AM
Hey Chelsie, you'll get more negative feedback on here then anything with you being so young. I'm 21 and engaged to my high school sweetheart, we've been together since we were 15 and it'll be our 6 year anniversary in January. I'm 7 months pregnant with our first baby. Not that I'm putting you down so don't think that but I only hear about 16 year olds wanting babies on The Maury Show. Are you focusing on high school? At 16 you can barely start working for minimum wage so I would find it hard to raise a baby that young. I would say it's wayyy soon since you two barely got married but nowadays no one waits...look at me and my fiance I mean we were going to get married then I found out I was preggers so we put it off for another year cause we'll need all the money once our baby girl pops out. If you really have your mind set on it...the best advice I could give is to wait till your at least 18 sweetie...honestly it's tough and expensive. We've spent thousands already and the baby isn't even here. Thanks to my family for helping us out cause even though we're both 21, it's still pretty hard at times. Think it over before rushing girly. Good luck though. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 3:27 PM
im not lieing and you have no right to say that i shouldnt have a baby i have just as much right as you do and im not lying im just upset people can get on here and accuse me of lieing and get everyone sending me bad messages i need friends right now not liers who have nothing better to do than pick on a teenager....my email address is [email protected] if no one belives me i have a copy of my marriage lisence and i will email it to you...im not immature you people ate immature making a big deal out of this...if someone was saying your a lier and your not married and your not 16 and stuff like that you would get upset too...i will make a great mother i have been around children since i was 11 i helped my mom raise my brother so dont tell me i wont be a good mother how dare you...you know how bad that hurts me.....you dont know me so stop talking crap about me 

Name: 2 chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 4:05 PM
ok i have read all of the things today and gave you the benefit of the doubt, but now i just got to the forum "middle names" how ini the hell can you go to not knowing your pregnant to being pregnant and already having names....see this is what makes you look like you are crying wolf...i think you want to be pregnant so bad, that you just don't know what to do....that is ok, but don't post in one place that you don't know if you are preggo and in another that you are and you and your husband are trying to find a name that you both can agree on..... 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 4:08 PM
im 99% sure im pregnant and weve had names picked out for months now i was just asking for help with the name 

Name: 2 chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 4:16 PM
have you went to a dr. yet? you know you can go to the local health department and they will give you one and what about prenatal vitamins and all the other things you are gonna need? I don't mean to be nosey but do you have insurance? I am asking for a reason so I can give you more information. 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 4:19 PM
i havnet gone to the doctors but i am all ready taking prenatal vitamins and yes i have insurance...i just dont have time to go to the doc. my husband works everyday hes only off on the weekends but my doc. isnt open on the weekend and i really want him to be there...so hes gonna take a few days off coming up because were having our wedding shower next sat. and if i am preganat we want to tell our family then 

Name: YOU SAID HE DIDNT HIT YOU??? | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 5:33 PM
Name: chelsie • Date: 11/08/2005 14:08:54

and my husband dosnt understand...last night i was hungry and i asked him to make me a grilled cheese and he said no so i got mad and went to bed and he came in there (and he was drunk) and he started yelling at me and i was ignoring him so he was grabbing my arm and pushing me and i tryed to get up and he grabbed me and pulled me on the bed and wouldnt let me go and i ran to the bath room and locked the door and he started punching the door...all because i was hungry and wanted a sandwhich and i cant cook 

Name: LIKE MOST 16 yrs olds | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 5:34 PM
sounds like you have issues with dealing with reality and are blinded and only see what you want to see 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 5:47 PM
he didnt hit me....i never said he hit me...he grabed me but not even hard he just wraped his arms around me and wouldnt let go...how is that abuse? he didnt hurt me and he wasnt trying to and when he was hitting the door he was trying to pop the lock 

Name: lying | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 10:06 PM
chelsie is a liar. she wants attention, shes not married, shes a damn liar. she is a little girl who needs 2 stay in school. 

Name: no shes not | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 10:35 PM
i live next door to chelsie and her husband she not lying she is 16 and married. 

Name: Gill | Date: Nov 9th, 2005 10:45 PM
Chelsie, you seem to be receiving a lot of negative feedback. I met my first love when I was 16, we got engaged and at that age I really wanted a baby of my own. But we split up eventually as he wasn't the man for me; Now I'm 22, myself and my fiancé own a beautiful home together, and we're going to start trying for a baby. I'm glad I didn't get pregnant to my first love as I went through University (College) got a degree, now have a fabulous job as a Bank Official. Sounds like you might have some relationship issues with your husband. If you are already pregnant, and want this baby, go for it and congratuations. But if now, take the opportunity to give your relationship a year or so to settle down before actually trying for a baby. I know you're broody but so was I when I was your age, and I'm glad it didn't happen then. Just some friendly advice. :) Gill 

Name: Ashley | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:35 PM
You cant even get married at 16....Stop lieing to everyone, and your "husband" already has a son?? How old is he anyways? Your moms one stupid person to let your get marreid..no offence.....enjoy being a KID while you can....you grow up real quick... 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:37 PM
my husband is 28 he has a 2 year old son and in michigan 16 is the legal age to get married...look it up or keep your mouth shut 

Name: Ashley | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:45 PM
No I will not keep my mouth shut.....hes 28..and your having sex...thats called ummm what is it??? STATATORY RAPE!! 

Name: CHELSIE | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:47 PM
WERE MARRIED ITS NOT STATATORY RAPE IF YOUR MARRIED 

Name: Ashley | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:50 PM
Well I bet you had sex befor you where married....and I still think its pretty gross that your 16 and hes 28....ugh....thats a 11 years difference there hunnie....tell him to get someone his own age and same for you....I mean i'm not trying to offend you...but it just doesnt't seem right....I think your lieing 

Name: chelsie | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:53 PM
look up michigan laws...16 is the legal age to get married...my mom signed the papers and we got married sept. 22nd 

Name: Wendi | Date: Nov 10th, 2005 5:56 PM
Hey Ashely why would she lie about it? Besides why is it your business? Shouldn't you just be supportive i mean that's why most of us are on here to help one another right? 

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