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Name: heather
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well, this is a tough one. i have only been with my bf since feb. well, now im 14 weeks pregnant. i live with him and we are soo happy together. everyone in my family loves him and we are very close to his grandparents. we have pretty decent lives and really no troubles. we have a few disagreements every now and then but nothing that could ever ruin us. i dont know how to explain it but our reletionship is something to hold on to and im so thankful that this is his baby. hes a good guy all around. but hes been talking about getting married and my family has been calling and asking if were going to get married. everyone keeps asking now that were gonna have a child. i mean, i have feelings towards him to the fullest and we have a very faithful reletionship. but i cant seem to answer when people ask that. i come from a very good family and no one has ever divorced when they get married, so i dont know what to do. help me please
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Name: stephyy | Date: Aug 12th, 2005 4:56 PM
my husband and i met in march...moved in together in june...i was pregnant in october...we married the following june...had my first born in july...who just turned one and we're still doing great. so far, i felt this was the best decision that i've ever made. he's a great guy..and im the luckiest person...hes a great father...and im blessed to have him in my life...we started with nothing, and built our lives together.
sure, marriage is tough, theres going to be fights, and arguments...and slamming of doors...some screaming....tears shed, but in the end, theres always going to be that love.
now we're expecting our second child...and very excited...we have hard times...but we always work things out...and we always manage to pull thru somehow... =)
good luck! 

Name: AJ | Date: Aug 13th, 2005 5:56 AM
Im sorry but its none of their business. Its up to you and him. Having a baby is no reason for anyone to get married. Im sorry if youre thinking of reasons not to get married then Id say youre not ready to get married. Best of luck and congratulations with the baby. 

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