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ok. i am only about 3 months and 3 weeks pregnant and me and my boyfriend have been having sex since i can remeber and something really odd is starting to happen. after were done , he pulls out, of course. but AS SOON as he does its like " crusty, " like the "juice" from me gets dried really fast. this has never happened. has anyone else experienced this? both of us are healthy and have only been with each other, but thats not a normal situation in our bedroom. and one more question...is it safe for your guy to "release" in you while your pregnant? ↓
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| Name: Pam | Date: Aug 20th, 2005 4:02 PM |
| To answer ur question as far as him pulling out i don't have that happen to me at all. But then again we don't pull out. If he ejaculates inside of u it does nothing to u or the baby, the baby is in a sack, so it doesn't even touch the baby, that is whats so great about being pregnant u don't have to worry about protection of any type. So yes it is safe for him to ejaculate inside of u. ↑ |
| Name: cindy | Date: Aug 20th, 2005 4:14 PM |
| thanx. yes, he ejaculates inside of me but after he " gets out " its like that. like, we stop having sex..lol..i know this wasnt in my question but no matter which way we have sexual intercourse, it will not hurt the baby? like if you fall down, you may hurt your baby, but if you roll around and shake your body during sex, it wont? ↑ |
| Name: Pam | Date: Aug 20th, 2005 10:09 PM |
| Cindy, u can't hurt the baby by having sex, the only thing u can hurt is yourself, eventually certain postions are not comfortable. But you can't hurt the baby by any type of sexual postion, unless ur into chains and stuff like that, then maybe u can, unsure on that. But ur baby is safe so don't worry about that. Just don't put alot of pressure on ur stomache cause ur causing harm to urself. ↑ |
| Name: Takako | Date: Aug 23rd, 2005 8:38 AM |
| To Pam, I heard that when you are in the laters stages of being pregnant and your boyfriend or husband ejaculates inside of you it can sometimes cause the baby to be born early. There is something in the sperm or something like that. ↑ |
| Name: Jenni | Date: Aug 29th, 2005 2:49 AM |
| Takako - Sperm helps thin the lining of the cervix. ↑ |
| Name: Eleni | Date: Aug 30th, 2005 10:59 AM |
I have asked the doctor over this, and this is what he told me: the sperm -especially after the 6th month- causes contractions to your womb, and you may have an early delivery, or a bleeding. It is said that sex is good along the 9th month, (helps cervix etc), BUT that will depend on you, how you will be able to manage your weight, the position, and the psycheology of your partner (many are scared of hurting the baby, or "braking the water" as called). For sure, it is better to have sex throughout it with protection, because apart from the contractions, sperm can affect the baby or the mother with an infection and the worst thing is that you are not allowed to take medication that contains cortizone at that time. So, all you have to do is decide if having sex -which you will have after delivery, and for the rest of your life anyway-is worth risking your baby's health - or very life- at this time.
Sex is good, I agree, but I think it is overrated sometimes. No one is against a natural and healthy sex life, but a little caution during this special time will be well appreciated from your own body, and from your little one, later. Warmest wishes for a healthy little one! ↑ |
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