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Name: flying_without_wings
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I am 14 and i found out i was pregnant 2 days ago i have only told my friends. I am absoulutly petriefied of giving birth and being a mum . I feel so deppressed about this pregnancy. Not because I am pregnant but how I got pregnant.I am not with the father . Reading these posts by other people I feel that everyone else is excited by ther pregnancies or new babys and I am the only one that feels this way. I am so fed up,tired , angry , scared is this normal ? or am I the only one ? I feel like everyone is judgeing me because of my age . All my friends think I am a slut because I am so young but it isnt my fault that I am pregnant ,I didnt even want to have sex!!!! I feel so alone I have no one to talk to. I am so confused I dont know what to do or where to turn to. I dont even know why I am writing this I guess I just needed to talk .Sorry for wasting your time . Thanks for reading this anyway . Bye ↓
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| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:09 PM |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:11 PM |
| if anyone has msn i would really appreciate being able to talk ↑ |
| Name: readytoadopt | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:11 PM |
Hey I would love to talk to you email me private at:
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: readytoadopt | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:13 PM |
| I added you but it says you are not on line! ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:19 PM |
flying,
1st off take a deep breath, it sounds like you're in the midst of a panic attack. Now not everyone is happy about their pregnancies. I am 22 and when I found out I cried for days and was considering an abortion, but I made the decision not to have one. Everyone is scared when they 1st find out. I'm 19 weeks along and there's nights that I cry b/c I feel like I'm going to screw up this litttle girl, and that I'm not ready for her. Now that we've covered the fact that not everyone is happy when they find out let me ask you some questions. Do you know when your last period was? This way you can calculate how far along you are. Now the fact that you're not w/ the father does not matter. There are many girls and women who raise children w/out a man. Also, YOU ARE NOT A SLUT! If your friends are calling you those names, well screw them. I'm sure not all of them are virgins, and it could have just as easily have happened to them. You have to stop worrying about how and why it happened, and realize that IT HAPPENED. So you have to deal w/ this. You have 3 decisions, and don't let anyone tell you one is better than the other. You can terminate the pregnancy, assuming that you're not 13 weeks or more, you can give the child up for adoption or you can raise the babt yourself. You must tell your parents regardless of what you choose. After all, you are 14, and this is a huge decision for a 30 year old let along a young teen. They will be disappointed, but they will love you. There are so many girls that have gone through this, I just hope some of them reply so that you can talk w/ them. If you need someone to tlak to you can e-mail me: [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:24 PM |
| Hey I have MSN its [email protected] I am 19 and pregnant with my second baby. I was 17 with my first lil girl so I myself was a teen mom. Message me with any questions or just to chat. I would be glad to help in anyway ↑ |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:25 PM |
| my last period about 3 months ago i didnt take a pregnancy test before because i just thought my periods were all messed up cos i was stressed and i am young ↑ |
| Name: connie | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:27 PM |
Being scared is very normal no matter what age. I would talked to your family, or your doctor to help you.
Good Luck! ↑ |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:28 PM |
| sarah M as soon as my msn stops trubleshooting i will add you ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:29 PM |
| Give me your MSn is you can not add me and I will add you. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:29 PM |
| Ok that work I will be here ↑ |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:32 PM |
readytoadopt
i dont want to sound rude and i appreciate you want a baby but for god sake i have only just found out i am prganant and how did u get my addy ? ↑ |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:34 PM |
| Name: flying_without_wings | Date: Jul 24th, 2006 8:34 PM |
| i am online i just cant add contacts ↑ |
| Name: ARMANISMOM | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 8:08 AM |
| First of all are you at least taking vitamins? You can go to any free clinic and they will calculate your due date for you and give you vitamins because the baby robs all your nutrients. Also the counselor can arrange a meeting with you and your parents when you are ready to tell them if you want there help. ↑ |
| Name: free spirit | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 4:51 PM |
Hi FWW: I felt very saddened reading your posting. You are in such a tough position. You are certainly not the only one who feels this way. But you are brave to speak up about it and ask for help.
It is natural to be afraid of giving birth. But in the whole scheme of things it is a blip on the radar screen. Being a mother is very challenging as well as rewarding. Doing it by yourself is even harder. Do you have a good support system? Have you spoken to your parents or someone else who can give you some support and guidance? This is a very big thing you are taking on. You should think hard about who you trust that is in your life that you can lean on. If no one is available, perhaps contact local services and see if there are any support groups. Do what you can not to handle all of these things on your own. ↑ |
| Name: gapeach | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 7:42 PM |
Hello
Would love to talk and be there for you to lean on when you need someone to talk to...I am a 33 year old teacher who understands the fear you are experiencing! If you want to talk ....email me at [email protected]
Until then....keep smiling!
Libby ↑ |
| Name: granny2be | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 8:01 PM |
You said your friends think you are a slut...if they feel that way they are not true friends. You say it isn't your fault and I am not one to judge you. Be STRONG. If you decided you just can't keep the baby please consider adoption. There are many agencies out there who work for open adoption if you are interested in knowing how your child is getting on in life, if not there is always closed adoption. My personal belief is simple...God does not let a child be concieved for no reason through any means.
You definately seem to be having a lot of depression, don't let yourself feel like your post is 'wasting time'. You need someone to talk to and most people aren't going to look down on you. ↑ |
| Name: squiggyrocks | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 11:53 PM |
If you want to talk I'm here for you I'm not pregnant. Only I'm 12 o.k. and you can talk to me over e-mail at [email protected]
-Taryn ↑ |
| Name: squiggyrocks | Date: Jul 25th, 2006 11:55 PM |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 11:30 PM |
flying_without_wings I see were u just found out ur pregnant but i have talked to u be fore i didn't no it was u until i seen ur email address r u 14 0r 15 r u pregnant or putting ur baby newborn up for adoption because if this is not u then i would like to no *************************************
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scared1906 Title: should i put my lil girl up for adoption ????????????
help my lil girl is 5 days old i love her but i want better for her i dont know whether to put her up for adoption i cant cope with this anymore ?
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Name: scared1906 • Date: 07/19/2006 13:06:31
email [email protected]
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scared1906 • Date: 07/19/2006 16:31:44
i was raped by step dad and his brother and she is the result =
Home » Pick Your Crowd » Due Date Crowd » i am looking for adoptive parents 4 my lil girl pls answer!!
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scared1906 Title: i am looking for adoptive parents 4 my lil girl pls answer!!
hi,
i am going to put my lil girl up for adoption she is 5 days . i am 15 i am not yet ready to take on the responsibility of looking after a baby. i love her to pieces and this is what is for the best . i would like to remain in her life and i want her to no me . she was concieved through rape(see my post pregnancy as result of rape not some made up story ....................on pg 2) if u would like to get in touch please email me
[email protected]
or if u have msn messenger [email protected]
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Name: scared1906 • Date: 07/21/2006 11:25:43
i have changed my mind i want to keep her i am sorry if any1 was intrested in adopting her i should have thought a lot more it =
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Name: flying_without_wings • Date: 07/24/2006 16:32:19
readytoadopt
i dont want to sound rude and i appreciate you want a baby but for god sake i have only just found out i am prganant and how did u get my addy ? =
Name: flying_without_wings • Date: 07/24/2006 16:34:04
[email protected] =
Name: flying_without_wings • Date: 07/24/2006 16:34:30
i am online i just cant add contacts =
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think this might be a scam because both post has the same email addresses ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 11:39 PM |
| Yeah that is weird Kelly M. to email addresses that are exactly the same. That's pretty pathetic if flying and scared are the same people; I mean alot of people supported scared because of her story. It just goes to show that skepticism is a virtue. Well it's just something that you have to expect when people are anonymously communicating via the internet. ↑ |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jul 26th, 2006 11:44 PM |
| kristy i would have never thought any thing about it but i have talked to scared and remembered the email address ↑ |
| Name: KELLY M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 12:29 AM |
| OH I'M SORRY I SEE THE DIFFERANCE BETWEEN THE 2 EMAILS 1 IS FROM YAHOO THE OTHER IS HOTMAIL BUT THE SAME NAME ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 1:47 AM |
| Kelly, but what are the chances that the e-mails are that similiar, but are different people.? I used to have multiple e-mail addresses w/ the same beginning and different domains like kristy84@hotmail and kristy84@yahoo, these aren't my e-mail addys by the way:) I just don't understand the fun in coming on a web site and making up a story. It's a waste of time. GRRRR!! ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:22 PM |
| Well at the end of the [email protected] there is no .uk as there is on [email protected] and unless there is a way to get around that(im not sure whether or not it registers to the UK itself or not) then it very well could be 2 people. I talk to both and if they are the same then shame but I will not say anything until I know for sure because i would feel horrible if I was wrong and these girls needed help ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 5:46 PM |
I've actually have [email protected] added to my msn. I just looked at my friend list and apparently she is also usuing [email protected]. [email protected] is actually the same person as the two above.
As far as I know she is indeed that 15 year old girl who was raped and as a result has a baby. She was having a hard time at one point as most first time mother do and she thought the best for her was to give her baby up for adoption, she has since changed her mind and wants to keep her.
It is possible for someone here to have the same address as someone there since they are register in different areas of the country. ↑ |
| Name: EthansMom0213 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 6:24 PM |
I talked to my husband who is a computer guy and he did say it was indeed possible for two different people to have the same (similar email address when one is here and one is there). He also had said that it's possible for them to one in the same.
However I do not believe these two people are the same people. Scared 1906 does have a baby. ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:22 PM |
| I understand that y'all don't want to believe that they are the same people. But you have to admit that pwinzess_perfect_1991 is an odd name and that the chnaces of them being the same people are very likey. I'm not here to argue though, but I believe they are the same people. How do you know for sure Ethansmom that scared1906 has a baby? But then again how do I know she doesn't have one? I'm just going to continue to take advice from people on here that are obviously telling the truth such as Ethansmom and sara m. Y'all have been very helpful and not decietful in the least. Of course most of you have been great, but I couldnt possibly name everyone of you. ↑ |
| Name: Kristy84 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:24 PM |
| Just one more thing. If scared already had her baby in July, then why is one of the e-mails that sara listed muma2beoct2006. That's a strange name for someone due in July. I'm due in december and I dont advertise that I'll be giving birth in March of 07. ↑ |
| Name: Sarah M | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:31 PM |
| That [email protected] is another name I for some reason have on my list from this site but the person who wanted me to add them never gets on. I dont think its scared myself its just another Jade or what not. I just know the Jayde aka [email protected] is due in october and it may be hers but she isnt a trusting person nor do i suggest anyone talk to her ↑ |
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