Yes.. this is another vent post.. dont reply if you cant be fucked..
I AM SO EFFED OFF... seriously man.. i stuck up for myself today.. im usually my boyfriends servent.. i do whatever he wants.. but not today.. and look what happens..
my boyfriends discusting fucking asshole of a friend is coming to stay.. my boyfriend gets up out of bed.. while i have been up since 6am with the baby.." clean the house, its a mess "
if its HIS FRIEND COMING HE SHOULD CLEAN UP !!!... i told him that.. he packed a huge shitty saying the dishes havnt been done in ages.. when he has NEVER EVER done the friggen things..
so he started putting all the dishes in a rubbish bag and said he would rather buy new ones than do the dishes..
FUCK HIM AHHHHHHHHH Seriously. he dosnt help with ANYTHING !! AND EXPECTS ME TO DO EVERYTHING !!!!! WHY ?!?!?!?! why the fuck am i always stuck with the jerks. im trying not to cry infront of isabelle...cause she will know somethings wrong..
im so sick of this..
he just walked out to pick his friend up and slammed the door..
the Sad part is.. im gunna have to live with this for the rest of my life.. i cant just leave him.. i have his baby...
im sick of being a slave..
and im sick of making him out to be such a great guy to my family...
anyways thanks for listening to my blabber..
peace. ↓
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| Name: ..RoSey.. | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 1:09 AM |
| i dont wanna have to share custody.... ↑ |
| Name: FatallyYours | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 1:12 AM |
| you dont have to, if you show fit to be a better parent, then there ya go. ↑ |
| Name: Randi | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 1:27 AM |
Well Rosey, if you stay with him and Isabelle watches him treat you like that, she will either pick up on how miserable you are and be miserable herself, or she will grow up thinking it's normal and get herself into a relationship just like that one.
You CAN leave him. You just don't want to. It might not even be forever. All it might take is some time apart to make him realize how much you and your daughter mean to him. If not, then he is a complete loser (duh) and doesn't deserve you or her. You are not doing anyone but him any favors by staying. Especially Isabelle. ↑ |
| Name: Double_K | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 1:46 AM |
Rosey I'm sorry. :(
I agree with everything that has been said. Especially Randi's comment---if you won't leave him for yourself, you NEED to do it for isabelle!!! She needs the example of a loving, HAPPY family...not one miserable all the time. ↑ |
| Name: ..RoSey.. | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 2:42 AM |
yay he broke my shoes :D
my only pair. ↑ |
| Name: NIKKIS | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 3:03 AM |
| randi is right. the relationship you are in is going to show isabelle that this is how a man is suppose to treat a woman, and you dont want her to grow up and marry a man like your boyfriend. kick his ass to the curb. it takes courage but it is well worth it ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 11:20 AM |
Aw Rosey ... Just because you have his baby doesn't mean you have to stay with him. You can both be good parents to Isabelle without being together. She shouldn't be a reason to stay together. There needs to be something more - love between you is so important.
My fiancé is really lazy round the house too, and I do all the cooking, cleaning, laundry pet-care etc. But I only let him get away with that because he works full time, and I'm at home at the moment, albeit 40-weeks-pregnant with his baby!
But even though I do pretty much all the housework, he'll put the rubbish out if I ask him to, and he'll cut the grass, and sometimes walk my dogs for me if I'm too tired to, as well as working 5 days a week.
I wouldn't have it any other way! You can't live a miserable life. You're too young to be so unhappy all the time. If I were you, I'd be damn sure things would change asap. Either he gets off those computer games and spends his days looking for work, OR he gets off his ass, and helps you with the housework and baby care. Don't give him a choice in the matter! ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 11:54 AM |
Aww how about the two of you get a babysitter and go on a romantic date or something?!
Baby's pick up on bad vibes whether you actually cry or not :(
It sounds like he's just gotten used to you doing everything and expects you to keep it up without lending a hand or appreciating it.
I think all ye need is a bit of romance and all those petty little arguments should hopefully disappear :) ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 11:56 AM |
And I also agree with everything Briseis said...
He broke your shoes?! Wtf? Lol ↑ |
| Name: jillw | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 1:19 PM |
Girl girst men.....well people in general will only treat you the way that you allow them to treat you. Also he is teaching your daughter that it is ok to be treated this way by a man and by staying with him you are letting her know that it is ok. In the end she will very likely end up with a man who treats her the same way her dad treates you. It doesn;t happen to all women, but it is more common then not.
There is no reason anyone should be talked to or treated like that. You diserve respect and if he is not willing to give it to you ALL the time then you should cut it short. Trust me it is easier to be a single mom then it is to deal with being unhappy and pu down all the time.
Oh an he doesn;t have a job right????? SO who the hell does he think will buy the new dishes?? ↑ |
| Name: Lola | Date: Sep 4th, 2007 3:49 PM |
| Well...it's an important thing having a child with a man, you know. Very important. And if the relationship is repairable then I think it should be worked on. If it's not...then that's another story. There's no denyin' an asshole and only you know if he is...so...you know.... ↑ |
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