We are all strangers on this board so she is talking to strangers! Folks that are trying to send her to a couseler or Dr are saying that they can not help her That she should talk to someone who can. When you have a broken bone you go to the drs so when you are bulimic & cutting you need to get professional help. Even a school counseler might be able to direct you to help.
After you chose to star this cycle of eating disorder it is hard to stop people become addicted to it.
Even if we know what someone feels like does not make us qualified to help!!!!!
This is not a game my daughter died from this illness last week she would not get the help she needed and talked to people that are not Drs. and it killed her.
If they call a hot line people know how to help and how they feel.
Before some else dies.
PLese call "Someone n need for Help}
National Eating Disorders Association (NEDA)
Phone: (800) 931-2237
Internet Address: http://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org ↓
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| Name: NO | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 2:37 AM |
| Name: Joey | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 2:40 AM |
| Im so so sorry of your, loss. I can't imagine how you are feeling rate now, and am so sorry. I told Kayla...I told her to go and get help...she asked advice and I just said to go and get help. It's up to her to do it, I didn't say just give it up I said to go get help. ↑ |
| Name: Exmother | Date: Apr 25th, 2006 12:54 PM |
Thank you Joey . It is up to th person to get help we cannot force people to eat. Even when they go to the hospital the force feed them by a tube but the eventally they go home and start again. They have to want to get help and be a part of life. Eating dsorders are not reaaluy about being thin, They are about the person having a very poor body image and think they look one way and they don't. It is also used for them to be in controll. This is the hardest part for me to understand.Most actions we take are in or control.Yes we all need to go to school or work and follow rules but out side of that we can read play run sit , help other ...
I think she just did not want to be in this world We were so happy then things changed so quickly .I stsrted finding food under her bed...
I miss her laughter this house is like a tunb.I do not want to come home any more and not see her.This illness is hurting more than just the people that have it.Her frinds are coming over today they wanted to know if they could have something of her to keep.This is killing me. ↑ |
| Name: jovan | Date: Apr 26th, 2006 1:44 PM |
| OMG!!!! im so sorry to hear that. i hope you stay strong. ↑ |
| Name: Ex mother | Date: Apr 26th, 2006 10:48 PM |
Thank you I just wish everyone would get the help they need it is killing so many childern & adults.The main problem is that they do not know they are ill and can not force them to eat forever. They have to want the help but by the time she was ready it was too late. SHe lose her beauty she lost her hair & her teeth and in the end her body just shut down. SHe look like bones walking but she could not even move she was too weak.
I shall so miss herI wish I could sstop thinking about how things were when she die. SHe has taken me wiht her
cant go on ↑ |
| Name: REad this ladies | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 1:07 PM |
| I am sorry f or you ai wish these people would listed ↑ |
| Name: !!!!! | Date: Apr 27th, 2006 11:38 PM |
| Name: Thank you | Date: May 8th, 2006 5:52 PM |
I read your story and told my Mom what I have ben doing.WE are going to get help.
Thank you !!! ↑ |
| Name: To Thank you | Date: May 9th, 2006 3:41 AM |
| Sweetheart I am glad you are getting help May God bless you and keep you safe and healthy!!! ↑ |
| Name: Exmother | Date: May 10th, 2006 1:29 PM |
| I wish you all health and happiness!!! ↑ |
| Name: shannon | Date: May 11th, 2006 3:55 PM |
| blaming your self for someones death is bad but blaming other people is worse. so dont try to make it seem that its our fault. could she really sit down and talk to you? or did you just push her away like my mother pushes me away ↑ |
| Name: Ex motther to shannon | Date: May 12th, 2006 1:56 AM |
I would or did not push my daughter away and never would. She was having a hard time in school.
I am not blaming anyone I just want you all to be healthy and happy. I am so sorry your mother pushed you away , Maybe she does not get that you want her help? I do not know but I wish you happiness& haelth ↑ |
| Name: c | Date: May 15th, 2006 10:07 PM |
| I am so sorry for your loss...reading your post has made me realise how my mum must hae felt and feels still. I am better than iwas but i still hate myself everyday....i hate what i have done to my family but it doesnt stop the ball of hatred for myself that burns inside. Just know that whatever happened nothing could make her better except herself, i bet you were a great mum am so sorry. Sorry to everyone i hurt as well ↑ |
| Name: Exmother to C | Date: May 16th, 2006 1:11 PM |
Have you been or are you going to get help? My daughter hated herself too ..She was such a fun loving person & very caring It is hard to understand why you or may daught would not love themself?? I know this dosorder kills but if you are getting help and want the help I know you will get better.
I hate that you are hurting can you talk to anyone??You have so much to live for the furture is a head of you I know things are hard now but I pray they will get better for you.You have somuch that you can do in the furture you could travel and see the world be anything you want to be.But you try to get help and want it I know you will feel and be better.
I think one of the hardest things for me was to watch her turn in to bones. Her hair and teeth fell out and she had cut marsk all over her and she could no longer walk.I know now that she just did not want to get better.
I hope you have the will to change and get better! You should feel good about yourself ...
You sure helped me & I thank you!!! ↑ |
| Name: Exmother to C | Date: May 19th, 2006 5:44 AM |
| Name: shannon | Date: May 20th, 2006 2:36 AM |
| i really am sorry for your daughters death and i did not mean what i said. thank you for the happiness and health phrase and will you please email me at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Kristin | Date: May 20th, 2006 3:29 PM |
| I'm very sorry about your daughter. I almsot want to cry. But people dont understand we want to stop but we cant. And people just say Hey stop its so gay. And were like we cant help it. ↑ |
| Name: Exmother to Kristin | Date: May 20th, 2006 9:41 PM |
If you want to get help that is the start. I do understand you can not help it on you r own. The thing is to get the help you need you are not alone. Some folks do not even want to get help and then it is too late.
I hope you are getting help.if you are truley getting with the right folks to help. Alot of times the real issue is not necessarily food. Other underlying issues are the problem find the problem and then they help people.
Ido hope you are gettinghelp my professionals.
Please take care & thank you!!! ↑ |
| Name: Serina & shannon | Date: May 20th, 2006 9:49 PM |
I am sorry my e-mail does not work right now. I hope youknow that I do understand & I do not want you to worry about waht you said to me.I know you were hurting.
Could you ask your mother to help you get the help you need if not maybe and school nurse or counseler.
I just wan tyou all to be healthy and have a great life.
May God Bless you and guide you to the right people.
xxoo ↑ |
| Name: Sorry | Date: May 22nd, 2006 11:08 PM |
| I am so sososo sorry. my daughter died of anerexia nervosa as well. Sorry. I hope you can get through this. ↑ |
| Name: Exmother to Sorry | Date: May 23rd, 2006 1:08 PM |
I a trying & wish you the same. I keep eexpecting to see her or hear her.It is a living hell. But I am doing my best.
This chat blog makes me ill I wish these folks would get some help.
God Bless and keep you ↑ |
| Name: beanpole | Date: Jun 4th, 2006 8:15 PM |
| we are all strangers and im sorry about ur loss. but there are people who are/were anorexic/bulimic and no how to act to get rid of it. u dont really need to turn to a doc or professional. ↑ |
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