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Name: Stephanie
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I am 15 and 17wks pregnate. My ex-boyfriend was mentaly and somewhat phisiclly abusive and still is when I talk to him about the baby. He wants to see the baby after its born but I don't know if I fully trust him to be able to take care of it by his self (he's 15 and a boy ) What do you all think i should do?
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Name: Meg | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 10:32 AM
It seems that you probably shouldn't have much to do with this boyfriend from now on. I'm hoping that you have some support, friends or family, because a baby can be a really big thing.
This is from Meg,2 kids. Abusive violent father whom I got rid of when youngest was 8 weeks old. Best thing I ever did. 

Name: rani | Date: Jan 23rd, 2006 3:06 PM
well, i think first that he is only 15. So he will be very immature about the whole situation. Staphanie, just understand that men or boys dont change. So, if he is menatlly and phiscally abusive now he will be when thew baby is born. I dont think that you should even try talking to him. You, have a child that you need to think about now. So please please dont go back, cause if he will not be there through the hard times why go back if he is not supporting you in any way at the moment . please if your not getting any thing posstive from him dont look back and think of the future.

You want love and happiness for you and your child so be strong and let him go. There is so much help these days.

Take care 

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