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Name: -twins- | Date: Jul 16th, 2011 6:58 AM
Hi. I'm Emra, i'm 15 and pregnant with twins(i'm soooooo scared!!). But my grandparents wanted me to abort the baby, but I didn't. I am 8 months pregnant. I know it is going to be hard. But I encourage you to keep it. Even if you have no time for friends or dating, it will be worth it. Im giving it up for my girl and boy (i'm naming then Vladimir and Emma). NOOOO babies bring joy! YESSSS IT WILL BRING HAPPINESS. 

Name: krys | Date: Jul 22nd, 2011 6:09 AM
Hi i got pregnant wen i was 19 an my bf didnt eant the baby i left him cuz he kept on insistin i get rid of the child even wen i was 5 months pregnant he took me to get abortion but i didnt now i have a beautiful baby boy an its wonderful... lil scary at first but its amazin 

Name: andy | Date: Jul 22nd, 2011 6:29 PM
you seem to be in a bit of a tiz bianca im pleased you will keep this child why worry about your parents please talk to them hope fully they will be a great help in 24 weeks your life will be full of joy and happy ness you have all the answers you need about pregnancy on the webb boyfriend sit down thing hard and make the dession your mind tells you to make all the best im sure your great life is about to start with this little bundell of joy this is a great web page for help 

Name: Helen | Date: Sep 22nd, 2011 11:38 PM
I just went through this same situation. I had my son 3 months ago today.
Telling your parents is the hardest thing you will ever do, but your baby will thank you. If you want some one to talk send an E-mail adress and I will tell you more about what I went through. Or text messaging. 

Name: chatsingle | Date: Nov 23rd, 2011 6:50 AM
you know what??its good decision to keep the baby..and forget that asshole..so what if your a single parent??and you should fight for your baby..your baby isn't just a toy..its blessing from God..and I'm sure your baby will bring much much happiness in your life..don't consider this as a tragedy of life..accept it with whole heart and mind..and learn to deal with it..consider your baby as redirection..^^

Godbless 

Name: chat single | Date: Dec 5th, 2011 6:02 AM
you know what??its good decision to keep the baby..and forget that asshole..so what if your a single parent??and you should fight for your baby..your baby isn't just a toy..its blessing from God..and I'm sure your baby will bring much much happiness in your life..don't consider this as a tragedy of life..accept it with whole heart and mind..and learn to deal with it..consider your baby as redirection..^^ Godbless  


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Name: Michelle | Date: Mar 6th, 2012 5:12 AM
hello Bianca I'm 19 years old too I'm 33 weeks pregnant. when I found out I was about 8 weeks pregnant I don't know how it is in Australia but in the US I had 4 weeks to decide if I wanted to keep it. I think on that part it takes a lot of thought and meditation on what you want. remember it's your body and emotions that will have to forever deal with this not anyone else. I thought about getting an abortion I imagined myself going to the clinic and getting an abortion and I would bawl my eyes out I just couldn't do it. my boyfriend wasn't mentally abusive until I got pregnant he would say it was my fault when really it was both our faults even though I was on birth control and he used a condom one day it broke and I still got pregnant. he said I would ruin his life if I kept it and so i told him to leave if he wasn't going to support the baby or even my decision. I was terrified about doing this alone and telling my mom and my relationship with my mom was highly strained for a couple of months but soon that went away and she became supportive. as far as you ruining your life well that's all your opinion your life is only ruined if you let be ruined. I was told the same thing and I'm sure every other young mother would be told the same thing, but if your determination to take care of you and your baby out weighs any negative thinking then you can overcome all other adversity. in my experience I'm still in school full time working towards a psychology degree and I still have a job however I do have a lot of help from my mom. I've probably written a lot now but if my opinion counts I couldn't imagine doing anything else and I believe I would have been absolutely miserable if I had an abortion. 

Name: 07abigal | Date: May 7th, 2012 2:37 AM
What you have in you is life and no one has the right to get rit of it. u r doing the right thing i command you for that, do u have a relationship with God? if you don't my advise would be to get closer to Him(God) He will guide you and He will soften your parents hearts towards your baby. Its not going to be easy but when you are waek He is strong. Trust Him, He will lead you. 

Name: lara | Date: Jun 17th, 2012 9:39 PM
is there someone here to chat? 

Name: Crystal | Date: Jun 18th, 2012 6:25 PM
Bianca, wow im so sorry things are overwhelming you right now..
I was 19 when I got pregnant too and it can be a very overwhelming thing when you feel like you have no one around.. but I sure hope your family will support you.
My family didn't in the beginning at all.. but once my son was born, they were so loving and supportive with the nurturing of him.
I know in this time things are so emotionally straining, but do yourself a favor and leave the boyfriend...

I was in the same position.. the guy i was with was emotionally abusive and it just wore me down and made me feel like scum... but because i so called "loved" him i stuck around hoping things would change... things WONT change.. thats the hardest thing to really come to realize... things will only change if you leave... then he may come to realize "Hey... im being stupid"...

Heres my story: I was 19 when i got pregnant, and I was in Bible College (yes i know, ironic) then 3 days after i found out i was preggo, i told my parents and it was definitely not easy; they freaked out and judged me, but I stayed strong inside... Eventually things got so hard to deal with, that I just left my parents house and went to live at my bf's parents house...
Things were great right after I moved out; he was considerate, kind, loving... everything was perfect.. we planned to get married and fix the mistake we made...
but then....
I found out I wasn't the only one pregnant...
I was SO hurt... and I didnt know what to do... so i just STAYED... and that was the worst thing I could've ever done...
And because of it, he's still in the picture... and things have gotten harder... he wants a say in his sons life, wants to see him, take him places, have his last name, doesnt want to pay for his kid... then court would have to come and step in...
its just a MASSIVE process... and its so emotionally stressful... honestly, if i could do it over again, i'd ditch the guy and just get through with it on my own..
so much less to have to worry about...

Find someone, maybe a family member, an aunt or an uncle and ask them to support you...
YOU are goin to make it I PROMISE!!!!....
I found a job being a nanny for a few kids and I could bring my own with me... you just have to be persistant and know what you need to do and that is provide for your little one...
Don't second guess it; this baby needs you; you're the only one that can REALLY take care of this baby ... mommy's know best; don't let the dad tell you otherwise...

PLEASE email me; I want to walk with you through this because I know how hard it is...
YOU are going to be a great mom... just think, there's someone breathing inside of you right now... :)

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Name: surpise comming | Date: Apr 10th, 2013 12:20 AM
im 19 i accidently slept with someone other then my fiance and im freakedd idk what to do i might be pregnant he knows and is willing to stick by my side i just dont know what to do/ 

Name: Shuckle | Date: Jan 14th, 2014 10:37 AM
Hi, also not a reply but a question.
I have been on the pill for almost a year, but forgot to take the pill Friday night. On the Thursday afterwards my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex ( he cant keep an erection with a condom) but he didn't finish. That night we had unprotected sex again and we are pretty sure he pulled out before he finished. I have been on the white pill for 4 days now and still haven't gotten my period. I am very worried and have heard this can delay it.
Is there a high risk of me being pregnant or am i overreacting? 

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