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Name: babybruno
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I'm 19 weeks pregnant and my baby's father left me for another woman about a month ago. It's not the conventional cheating. he actually left me and went back to his first wife. Not only am I mending my broken heart, but I feel jealous and angry constantly. I feel guilty because my negative attitute is affecting my baby. Any advice?
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Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 28th, 2006 9:29 PM
Sorry to hear you are going through this!
Its sad but alot of woman are in your situation and feel this way. Look the only advice i can give you is to stay posistive, try and move on and away from the babies father, obviously he isnt a decent character, and you wouldnt want to bring up your child in that kind fo negetive enviroment.
I know its hard because you do still love him, just try and cut off all contact from him ie: calling him etc. You got a beautiful little baby growing inside of you that now has to become your main focus.
Your better off anyways! You will find someone that will actually treat you with respect and be with you. 

Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 29th, 2006 8:17 AM
this might sound harsh but this is what worked for me. if you [or anyone else] is struggling to get over a ex, but you do need to cut of all contact with him for at least 4 weeks, thats no phone calls nothing... it will be hard but think of other things, like how happy your gonna b when your baby arrives, just concentrate on yourself and your baby. if you have got friends and family spend time with them, allthuogh if u no they may bring your ex into a convo ask them not to, just try not to think of him.
does he want contact with the baby once its born ?
if he does then you have got till your babys born to try and get over this, and even if your not just pretend to him you are.
i no how hard it is, my babys dad left me when i was 6month preg for some other girl, i was absolutly deverstated, it is hard and it will take time but you can do it. and when your baby comes you honestly wont care anymore.
you are better off without him,
i hope your feelin better soon. 

Name: motherdearest | Date: Oct 31st, 2006 10:47 PM
Babybruno i feel you, because my baby's father wants nothing to do with me or my baby. He has made that loud and clear. He soo wooried about his girl finding out that it pisses me off HE PLANS ON KEEPING MY BABY THIS BIG SECRETE but what can I do but try to forget and act like I don't care ABOUT HIM. Eventhough I would be fooling myself if I said I don't care or even love him. I know him to be a very good father to his other kids and the fact that my baby won't get that attention that love HURTS LIKE HELL. I cry when I think about it. It's not fair nor right but what can I do nothing. Nothing at all. IT HURTS !!!!!!!!!
I HAVE A POST TITLED: I WISH WE COULD TELL OUR HEARTS HOW TO FEEL AND FOR WHO !!! READ IT SO THAT YOU CAN GET AN IDEA OF WHAT I'M GOING THROUGH. UR NOT ALONE 

Name: oniedabear | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 4:48 PM
Just out of curiosity, does he still want to be in your childs life?
If he does, put yourself aside and think about your childs needs. If he doesn't just use the same concept, he isn't worth the pain. 

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