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Name: christydew

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I am approx. 6 weeks pregnant and ended my relationship prior to finding out. I called my ex to let him know (3 weeks ago) and he insisted on an abortion and hasn't called since. I want my child to know it's father but unsure if it would be healthy for my little one. Should I continue to call/email him my appointment times or do this by myself? ↓

Name: redrose78 | Date: Apr 16th, 2008 2:21 AM

Hi Christydew,
my feedback is get on with your life and forget him. As i see it you have told him your pregnant he is for what ever reason does not seam to care. You have given him every chance. maybe in time he will want to k now the child bit for know for get him. If he was a decent man he would have done the right thing. I to fell pregnant and had the same thing happen to me. he to ignored my calls and yes it hurt like hell to see him to not care at all but that life and its is full off terrible people. God bless if you would like to chat more you can contact me on [email protected], Take care. ↑

Name: lindalu | Date: Apr 16th, 2008 7:18 PM

He has already made it clear, he doesn't want any thing to do with the baby. I would suggest contacting him one more time, inform him of your plans... let him know that he can be a part if he so wishes. Also tell him that you will not be contacting him again, then go about your business with or with out him. ↑

Name: christydew | Date: Apr 20th, 2008 1:22 AM

Thanks for the feedback. I emailed him a pic of the first ultrasound and told him I would not make any further contact. It just amazes me that a man (using that term loosely) can deny his child and supposedly someone he loved for over a year. ↑