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Hello everyone, I am a new mom. My son is 6 months old and I think I'm pregnant again. I have't gotten the confirmation, but I know I am. I am so scared, my son is only 6 months old, I'm only 22 and I'm still with the dad, but right now I'm living BACK at home with my parents because he couldn't do his part during the last pregnancy. He's doing better now, he finally has a job, but I don't know if it's going to be enough to support now 2 kids. I think I want to keep the baby because I would never dare have an abortion, but I feel like I would upset my family (again, even though they love my son now) and I'm scared it will be soooo hard. Please help. ↓
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| Name: lonely | Date: Jan 8th, 2006 7:08 PM |
hi katie,
u r not alone, i've been thru this as well, i got pregnant at 21 and upset my family( we got married then), then when my son was around 5 months i got pregnant with my daughter, i was also feeling kind of guilty towards my family, well they accepted anyway (my mom after initial shock, i was 22 as well), and i'm pregnant again( got pregnant when my daughter was around 5 months, even though i was on a pill), this time i had more feelings of guilt and even embarassment, and then u know i just said to myself that its my life and i'm not gonna abort a baby or feel guilty just cuz someone else won't like. We r pregnant? So it was meant to be. I know u r scared, but then u know there millions of people around the world who r in a so much worse situation, some dont even have clean water to drink. I don't mean to say that we should keep on having babies without any bounderies, there's r a lot of contraception methods, but if it happened it happened u can't change it.
So good luck to u. ↑ |
| Name: lonely | Date: Jan 8th, 2006 7:10 PM |
| by the way i also used to stay in my parents house most of the time. ↑ |
| Name: Heather | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 10:03 PM |
| Big deal.. its going to be hard. Your not a baby you are 22. Just be happy if the baby is born normal and healthy. Stop running back to mommy and daddy. First get married then start making a home you new husband and children. Grow up! And may I suggest birth control. ↑ |
| Name: to heather | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 12:58 AM |
| She said she was on the birth control pill if you actually took the time to read what she posted. Who are you to be so judgmantal anyways? They are lucky they have their "mommy and daddies" to run to. I wish I had my parents around to help support me. You post eveywhere acting like you know everything. Why dont YOU grow up and keep your two cent comments to yourself. It must be very tough to be perfect huh? ↑ |
| Name: Tina | Date: Jan 10th, 2006 3:17 PM |
| I know u can do it, Its like me im 22 and scared, But your lucky to have the baby father in your life. My boyfriend its threatening to leave me if i have the child. Im 8 weeks, so im actually having it. So look at it this way, he is trying very hard and your should be proud of him. My cousin has 4 boys and when she had her 3rd child she found out she was 6 months pregant for her 4th child, she was shock cause she just had a newborn, so it was really hard. But u have support and you should go for it. and also there is help out there for the babies so dont worry everything wili work out for the best. ↑ |
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