My boyfriend of 8 years is driving mad .we have a two year old togeather and he behaves worse than him.
He is always ranting and raving if something does not go his way,and everything is always my flaut.
For the last six months(it could be longer)everytime we get into a row he threatens to hit me,he is doing all this in front of our two year old and i cant have it any more.It upsets him to hear it!
Come on girls i need some words of engourgment! ↓
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| Name: Mommy | Date: Jul 28th, 2006 9:03 PM |
| Leave him. Any guy who would threaten you doesn't derseve to be with anyone. Any guy that threatens you in front of your child deserves even less. There are many men out there who are worth a family and it appears that he isn't one of them. Be strong for your baby. ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 12:52 AM |
| Whatever you do........DON"T MARRY HIM!!!!!!! Get away from him completely,your son doesn't need the stress of that in his life. If anything,your son is learning a very bad way of how to treat women! ↑ |
| Name: Christy | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 1:55 AM |
| Get yourself and your son out of that situation before your son learns this behavior! RUN RUN RUN as fast as you can away from this man. Did I say man? No, no. A man would never threaten to hit a woman. Run away from that boy who needs desperately to grow up! I know it's scary, but believe me life alone is better than life in hell. I separated from my ex husband 5 years ago and, although it was scary, my son and I are just fine and I'm expecting another child in November. I couldn't be happier. If someone would have told me 5 years ago that I would be single, pregnant, and happy, I would have laughed in their face. But, it's now my reality. I promise things will work out if you just take a stand for yourself and, most of all, for your son. ↑ |
| Name: Shelly | Date: Jul 29th, 2006 3:47 PM |
I have done it i told him this morning,of course he tryed to change my mind he is at his mums now.here in the uk we get money from the goverment to help if you are a single parent it takes a long time to come through but my mum and dad have said that they will help!
I am qute upset because we have been togeather for a long time and i have been crying for most of the day but i know that i have done the right thing! ↑ |
| Name: Lizzi | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 11:06 PM |
| Good for you shelly,stay strong!!!!! ↑ |
| Name: davina | Date: Jul 30th, 2006 11:52 PM |
| im actually in the same position...my boyfriend and i of 4 years have a 2 year old daughter...hes the same way...or at least used to be....he was like that for a long time, then i kicked his ass out.....it was hard because i love him very much, but i only let him come back under one condition..he had to go to a doctor and explain his anger problem and get help, and he did!...now things are better....u should try the same! ↑ |
| Name: Shelly | Date: Aug 1st, 2006 7:10 PM |
Thanks davina we have sat down and talked things through we are going to give it another go,he has promsied to cahnge his ways!
He says that he knows what he has to do to make things better!
He told me that he cant remember when he last told me that he loved me or made me feel speacil. ↑ |
| Name: Diana | Date: Aug 15th, 2006 4:55 AM |
| I would leave him or give him an ultimatom, for if he loves you he will work on the marriage and give the two year old as much love and affection that could be mustered, even if you two are arguing or yelling. All I can truly tell you, is follow your heart and what your common sense tells you. Anotherwise, you will feel guilty later on. Do what you feel is right no matter what anyone else recommends or says. It's your choice ultimately. ↑ |
| Name: megan or riley? | Date: Aug 16th, 2006 7:04 PM |
| hay hun im 14 weeks pregnant and my bf isnt helping what so ever, infact he has made matters worse by stressing me out and acting so childish, my friends r like well if hes like this now imagine how its gona be once the babys born, i surpose im expecting a miracle, fink of u and ur baby, she will jus pic up the vibes an this is not fair on u, i no its hard an u have a baby together, i think u should spend some time apart and maybe this will make him relise if not, kick him too the curb, were in the 21st century, being a single mum will be ok an u will because u will have too have the streth inside u too get rid of him!gud luck n let me no wat happens but dont put up with it ↑ |
| Name: Nightshade | Date: Aug 18th, 2006 4:29 PM |
Hi Shelly,
I am a 41 year old man, and as far as the [cough, cough] man in your life, I would suggest you kick him, real hard, to the curb. I have 2 daughters aged 7 and 8, and we are very happy without their mother. She was exactly like the person you are describing. Any "man" that would hit (or threaten to hit) a lady, any "man" that would scream at you for anything (especially in front of your son), any "man" that would abuse you in way, shape, or form isn't a man. He has still got a LOT of growing to up do. And yes, the screaming and threatening to hit you is considered abuse. Kick him, get a restraining order, get full custody of your son, and move on. You and your son deserve much better, and I have no doubt you will find someone that loves you, and your son, the way you deserve to be loved. Good luck. ↑ |
| Name: sunnshine | Date: Aug 18th, 2006 8:21 PM |
| Shelly what can I say try to do what I am doing stay strong ↑ |
| Name: wali | Date: Aug 29th, 2006 7:06 AM |
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