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Name: singlemom9979
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I need some advice... I am a 32 year old single mother who lives in an extended family situation. My mother lives with myself and my two boys. There have been some family issues in the past that have left a sour taste in my mother's mouth for inlaws... However I have started dating a young man and we would like to get serious, move in together, have kids of our own.... My dilemma is two fold....

First my boys are 10 and 8 and neither one of them have ever met any of my BF that I have been with since they were born. How do I go about introducing them and when is an appropriate time to do so???

Secondly, how do I tell my mom that I am moving a man into the house or that we are moving someplace together without hurting her or putting her on edge. I am not sure she has any place else to go, but I am also not sure she could live alone.

I want this young man to move in more than I have ever wanted anything from a bf. We have talked about and have started trying to have a baby... and may even be pregnant this month. I am not looking to do this on my own again, and to prevent that I need him here with me...I want him here with me.... I need to convince my mom he is a nice guy, but she is not going to be convinced easily...

Please offer any suggestions or experiences you have had.... I am at cross road and don't know where to turn or what to do.
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