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Name: Noel
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Hi my husband left me for another girl at 6 1/2 months pregnant. I had been suspecting him of cheating on me for the a couple months before finding out with that girl. I have been going through an extremly difficult time with all of this especially because he had been begging me for a year to have his baby. I just don't understand how he could do this to me. I need help.
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Name: mlhslw63 | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 5:02 AM
Noel - your story sounds so much like my own! I'm so sorry that you're going through this emotional trauma when this should be the happiest time of your life. Have you had the baby yet??

I was married for 20 years and became pregnant with twins at 38. At 5 months, my husband started an affair with a woman he worked with. I found out about the affair at 8 months and went into labor. Fortunately, the twin boys were born healthy.

We separated when the babies were 5 months old and are now divorced, so I'm a single Mom raising 5 year-old twin boys. I will never understand why this happened, but I've accepted it. I truly believe that I'm a better Mother to our children without him in my life!! He's not half the man I thought he was.

Being a single Mom can be very stressful, lonely and tiring, but just remember, things happen for a reason.....try to focus on the positives around you, like the child you were blessed with, and take care of YOURSELF first and foremost. Afterall, we can't take care of others unless we take care of ourselves!!!

God bless you and your beautiful child!!! - Michelle 

Name: peteysmom | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 6:46 AM
beautifully put michelle
hopefully all works out easy for you noel
good luck 

Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 8:25 AM
So sorry to hear this has happened to you.
I guess its best to find out now, then later on. You must realise there are so many people in your situation and that there is alot of support and help out there for you.
Your focus, as hard as it is right now is on this child. To try and stay calm happy and healthy.
Make sure you build a strong help network around you, be it family friends or even people online to talk you though all your emotions and feelings.
The pain will go away eventually...i am speaking from experience.
Just hang in there! xxx 

Name: Lynne n | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 8:31 AM
A friend of mine's sister went through the excat same thing,they had been married for 4 years but togeather for 14.
He was the one who wanted to have the baby and then when she was 5 months along he left her for another woman!
It took her a while but now she is doing really well,she has a lovley baby boy who is now 3months old and she said that them breaking up was the best thing that could have happened!
She has the support of her family and friends and she loves her life!
It will be hard to start with but stay strong and you will get there!
I wish you all the best!Take care xxx. 

Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 9:36 AM
wow that is exactly the same as what happened to me. how old r u? i was only 17 and i was 6 month pregnant and my boyfriend of 5 years left me for some other girl, well kid she was only 15. im now 19 and my little girl is 2. to be honest it took me a very long time for me to get over it, like you i just couldnt understand how he could leave me and his baby that he had wanted so much. i was a real mess at the time, are you still preg or have you had the baby? honestly it will get easyier but it does take time.
at the end of the day he doesnt deserve to be with you or his child. you can do this, you have to get over it for the sake of your child. sorry if that sounds a bit harsh hun. does he want to see his child ?
i hope you feel better soon, i no how hard it is, but you can do it. 

Name: l3itchyl3unny | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 9:42 AM
Gosh! its real hard to find a quality decent man who will stand up to his responsibilites these days, its disgraceful!

Lol i think all men who cheat should be casterated! 


Name: saxton_emma | Date: Oct 27th, 2006 1:19 PM
i agree 13itchy.. i dont think there are any decent men left in the world. hehe 

Name: Amy | Date: May 7th, 2012 10:04 PM
When my husband found out I was pregnant he just left me. I went to visit my Mom and to suprise her that I was pregnant! When I got home from that visit verything we owned was gone, apartment, insurance, credit cards, bank account, my clothes, our furniture everything excepted my old car and the clotes on my back. My husband gave everything away including his BMW. He took evrything else, but he left me a box at a friend of mines house. It contained his SS card, useless credit cards, cancelled cell phone, drivers licience, he guit his nice job that also stopped our medical benefits and he disapeared. The good thing is my Mom let me stay with her otherwise I would have had to sleep on the street or my car. I can't find a job to help us out. My life has turned horrible and very upside down. 

Name: lucia | Date: Mar 28th, 2013 10:49 PM
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Hello every one i want to share my testimony how i got my husband back, my husband left my and my 2 kids and go for an other woman, when i saw both of them my heart was broken down, i told my best friend who was also having the same problem long time ago, she help me by given me Dr obas contact and i email [email protected], he told me what to do after the casting of the love spell my husband that left home for 4 month run home and was asking for my forgiveness. thank you [email protected] for building my marriage contact him he can also be of help to you. 

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