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Name: Erin
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Hello. My name is Erin. I am 26 years old and 3 months pregnant with my first child. I recently found out that the father of my child, whom I was seeing, is married with 2 children. He wanted me to abort and that was never an option for me. He feels now that I ruined his life since his wife found out and is leaving him. I am not sure if he wants to be a part of this child's life but is it wrong if I don't want him to be? What kind of example will he be?!
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Name: sally24 | Date: Aug 14th, 2006 5:24 PM
Well it is your choice and since he doesn't want anything to do with the baby it seems he won't be offended if you opt to do this on your own , second he shouldn't blame this on you sex can create children with or without birth control he should know that he has two he is just angry by his own stupidity because he can longer have his cake and eat it to , and it is unfortuantly taking it on you. Tell him how you feel say I know you don't want to be a part of this childs life and that is fine but I want this baby and am going to choose to have it and raise it just so he knows , make sure your bounderies are set from the begining , it will hurt your child more if this man suddenly wants to be a daddy four years down the road when all he issues are resolved. 

Name: shirlianne | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 1:44 PM
well, i am 20 n my baby is 5 weeks old now n her daddy hasnt bothered as he has another family with which he has a 5 month old son i really want him 2 b apart of my babys life but hes just not interested it gets me really down but i live in the hope that mayb 1 day he will want 2 c her. but who nos?mayb its 4 the best he doesnt see her but he has broken my heart. 

Name: Guest | Date: Aug 25th, 2006 3:38 AM
Men don't leave their wives in these situations. be strong and let him go. obviously he loves his present family. u will find your own one day. 

Name: Lizzi | Date: Aug 25th, 2006 11:31 PM
Leave him in the past like a bad memory! 

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