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Name: Rena

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So you know there is that small chance that a vasectomy can fail and sure enough my current boyfriend and i have fallen into this percentage. He doesnt know and im terrified to tell him we have only been dating for about 2 months and the last time he and i had inercourse was about 5 weeks ago i am terrified because he got his surgery rigth after his 3rd son was born and how do you tell him that the surgery didnt do what it was suppose to do.
Someone help me top freakng out ? ↓

Name: cjsims | Date: Jul 19th, 2008 7:18 AM

Well, I'm sorry that happened to you, BUT I just read online some info and you guys should've gotten some more information before believeing that 5 weeks was long enough to wait. I just read that it could take up to three months for the sperm to be completely dead after a vasectomy. Didn't the doctor give you any after surgery advice? My hubby and I have been discussing a vasectomy for him, and there is nowhere that we've gotten info from that says its safe to have unprotected sex right away. Since it has only been five weeks, it doesn't surprise me that you are prego, cause it takes awhile for it to take affect. ↑

Name: Julissa Crowder | Date: Jul 10th, 2010 7:06 AM

so so sorry 4 u and 4 me...okay my husband and I are only child no brothers no sisters so we wanted for sure more and 1 but 3 was pushing it.....all girls ages 3, 2, and 6 months old!!...my husband got vesectomy 2 months after our 3rd girl...3 months later I'm pregnant!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!......I broke the news to him few hrs ago...he yelled so many bad and horrible things and was going literly crazy and so am I................. ↑

Name: ron | Date: Nov 23rd, 2012 9:50 PM

is anyone here? ↑