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Name: Biscotti
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My bf and I dated for 7 plus years. He cheated on me for about half a year with a woman who is divorced with a kid. He made
her pregnant and she had to go through an abortion. She works with him.
When he realized that I am pregnant, he wanted to marry me.
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Name: Biscotti | Date: Jan 19th, 2010 9:37 AM
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I agreed to his proposal and am still learning to forgive him for the sake of my baby. I want my baby to have a complete family.
Our wedding is taking place soon and yet I found out that there has been frequent exchanges between him and the other women. His reason is that it's for work. That woman is trying to be friendly with all his friends. Trying to get attention by getting herself hospitalized and overdosing her kid with medication.
I am paranoid and I'm not happy.I no longer want to
get married with him. She will never let him go
and I feel that he is still encouraging her by doing work related stuff for her ( who has a diploma and do not know how to use PowerPoint?)
I have no trust in him given recent events. Yet I feel bad for her. I'm so confused. I don't even know if I should still get married when I'm feeling this way.
I received a anonymous call last night from a lady to tell me to rethink about marriage as my husband to be is still hanging out with that woman. When confronted, he told me that it's just work and it was in the office and he didn't do anything wrong.
That caller mentioned that he's marrying me cos I'm pregnant and that's the reason that he left her. And yet he's encouraging her and giving her false hopes by dedicating sappy love songs to her.
I'm going nuts. Really. I just want to be happy. Why is it so hard!?
Sigh
I don't know what to believe anymore. 

Name: BrittanyMae | Date: Jan 20th, 2010 2:02 AM
You dont need to be with him just because your pregnant. its not fair to you or the baby. Hes not that great of a guy if he only wants to marry you after your pregnant. From the way your making it sound he does seem like hes still messing around with that other woman which mean hes really not ready to be settled down. I personally am pregnant and not with the father of my baby. He cheated on me pleanty of times, even after i told him i was pregnant. We were suppose to get married in December and thankfully i didnt because I should be treated better then that and so should you. You deserve to be happy and so does your baby you dont need to be stressed out with him and not wanting to be faithful to you. I think you shouldnt marry him its seems like it would be a mistake and you wouldnt be happy. 

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