hey all,
well i am 20 this year and have a 22 month old daughter and am 29 weeks pregnant. My partner and i broke up and now i am all alone, no family or friends jut starting to meet people at playgroup and stuff. Forthe last 2 months i have had really bad ligament pains and they are getting worse it gets to the points where it takes me 5 minutes just to hop out of bed i am in that much pain. since the brake up it has been hard, working 2 days and looking after an energetic toddler. I have suffered from depression since i was 15 and starting to think i amgetting it again all i want to do is cry and get angry alot quicker then usual. i was on tablets before i got pregnant the second time, but i dont want to take tablets until the baby is out. is anyone else in this position if so please give advice on how u handle everything ↓
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| Name: dmt | Date: Apr 24th, 2007 2:04 PM |
Hi,
My name is Michelle give me an email I would love to talk.
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 1:01 PM |
| Hi there. I posted you a reply on the Due Date forum about how wonderful you are to be responsible enough to keep your babies, and what a fantastic mother you seem to be. I admire women like you. :) Michelle is a sweet person, but she is only really on here to adopt. If you want genuine support , then stick to the Due Date board where Michelle and other people looking to adopt aren't welcome. We're all here to help you and YOUR babies, unless adoption is the route you're going to take. Hope to chat to you soon. x ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 1:06 PM |
| Michelle, I hope you don't find what I said offensive. BUT I don't buy the 'I only want to help people out' nonsense. What you want is to adopt a baby first and foremost. If Bundy_Mum needed an adoptive family there are HUNDREDS to choose from in her location I'm sure without your 'help'. Please stop making adoption out to be charity work that you're doing to help people in need. Because that's not only nonsense, but completely offensive to people who have been adopted like me. What you want is another baby of your own; your intentions of helping people is sweet, but taking a baby from it's mother is not helping her. What we need is a society which helps mothers keep their babies. ↑ |
| Name: briseis | Date: Apr 25th, 2007 1:15 PM |
And not to offend ... but there are so many infertile couples who CRAVE a baby of their own, just one baby of their own, but have to resort to adoption because unlike you Michelle, they have never been able to have a biological son or daughter, despite endless effort.
Don't you realise that if you adopt a newborn baby, you're taking a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity for a childless couple to have a baby of their own? When I think of it, I actually find what you're doing a tad selfish in that respect. You already have biological children. I think it's wrong to stand in the way of childless couples who want a baby. ↑ |
| Name: Dreamsofchild | Date: May 2nd, 2007 11:02 PM |
Bundy take one moment at a time one day at a time and find a friend a counselor a member of a church someone to be their for You and for Your children. You need emotional support worse then ever right now someone to be their to be a shoulder to cry in if thats what you need right at that moment and someone for you to talk to. God bless and take care. Its hard but You are strong you can do this. Talk to your doctor about alternative ways for pain relief. There are some that will help and not harm your child. Talk to the doc about feelings of depression as well.
Dreams ↑ |
| Name: Sammy g | Date: May 4th, 2007 12:26 AM |
| try making friends here sweetie, www.youngmummies.info ↑ |
| Name: Ava | Date: Jun 19th, 2007 12:38 AM |
| Hi Bundy Mum, where are you from? ↑ |
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