| Was the split both your choices or more yours than hers? Maybe she is feeling bad because this isn't what she had in mind when she thought of how and when she would have a child.Are you sure you wouldn't want to reconcile with her? Maybe deep down it's what she really wants but wants you to initiate it. It's something for you to think about anyway.Whether you're together or not you do have a right to be in your childs life but you may need a lawyer to see to it that you are treated fairly if you can't work out an agreement of somekind yourselves.Good Luck and I hope this makes you more careful in the future. ↑ |
| Are you sure it's yours? I know this may sound bad, but I know of some women who find out after they split Then when they go do the dr the timelines don't add up & it is someone else's. Maybe she's unsure if your intentions are good & is trying to not be let down. Have you asked her why she's distant. Remember she's hormonal. Can you try to come up with an agreement now while she pg to discuss how you would like to be there? Maybe she doesn't want a commitment from you & is afraid now you share a son that you might have a say in what goes on. There could be thousands of reasons why. I suggest you take her out to eat & talk it over casually. There are other things that might help you figure it out such as is this her first child? Maybe she's scared, she doesn't get family support? Is she considering adopting the child out? With so many factors it really is a guess at this point. ↑ |
