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| Im sorry to hear that sweetheart. Birth can be a beautiful thing but at the sametime it is also a hard thig for a womens body to go through. I myself have had 2 children my forst delivery was a fairy tale. Labour for only 2.5 hours no complications drug free labour Aand delievery healthy but small baby girl. She weighed in at 4 lbs 5 oz. I was 18 when I had her. My second pregnancy complete hell. Sick all the time just nothing seemed to be right. I had him very premature weighing only 1 lbs 8 oz. His delivery was not a nice one at all. I had to have an epidural and cause it was an emergency it was placed wrong and didnt freeze me but they had to cut me anyways. But today he is now 18 months old very active and I am very foturnate that he has no medical problems or special needs which is very rare for how early he did come. So what I am saying is that no 2 peoples birthing experience is the same not even the same for the same mother giving birth. But hang in there dont worry about what others think no matter what everyone has the own opinions and no one can change that. Just believe in yourself and allow your aunt to stay as a positive person in your life you need her right now more then you will ever know. ↑ |
Hi Kayla,
Im sorry to hear about your experience with getting pregnant. However, being pregnant doesnt have to be a drag. Enjoy your pregnancy to the fullest and when labor comes just make sure you speak to ur doctor about all your pain options. There are ways to make the pain easier to deal with. Also, keep in mind that the pain will pass. I have an 11 month old and I am now carrying another baby. It is painful, I am not gonna say its not, but it will all pass and then you will have a baby in oyur arms, feeling the grestest joy a mother can feel. About you dropping out of school, if u have the support from your aunt and you are able to go back to school for Junior high, I really suggest you do so. You have to finish school, so you can offer your child the most. THink about what is best for the both of you. If you want to talk some more you can find me at my msn: [email protected]. Take care sweetie ↑ |
Kayla,
I think your a very mature young lady. This is not an easy journey you are on to motherhood. If at some point during this journey you feel u cant handle being a mom at 13. My husband and I would love to adopt. If you want to tlk to us about this please feel free to contact me at [email protected] ↑ |
Kayla You need to really think is your aunt going to Help You raise Your own child or is she going to raise Your baby? How many weeks pregnant are You? Is this a boy or a girl? That also matters for single moms. Why would You drop out of school] their are schools for moms to be and they even provide childcare for you so you can get your diploma and some parenting information etc. Best wishes
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| Kayle although I am sympathetic to your situation I don't think this is the place to be posting your pregnancy. ↑ |
