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I have a four year old son, with special needs, he is delayed in many areas, nothing yet has been put on paper of his condition but recives help from many proffesionals,eg, occupational therapist and has full time support in school. In October of last year myself and his father split up, this was my desscission after years of bickering and i had fell in love with some one from my work place which has all ended up going pear shaped. So i am now a single parent, there is no chance of me and my sons father getting back together because i just dont love him in that way. The thing is, i am from the north east and when i was 18, i mooved to lincoln, where my son was born, feeling proud, i wanted to moove back to the north east to show my son off, so then we did, we mooved back in august 2003. Ever since i have been back i have regreted that descission. I have no one up here, no friends, yes iv got my mam and dad who support me a lot with my son but im really not happy here. I want to be back in lincoln with my friends. My parents will not let me take my son back to lincoln because they love him dearly and it will break there heart. Am i selfish for even thinking of going back, it is only a two hour train rhide. Can some one please advise me if i am making the wrong descission. Do i put up with my unhappiness for my son so he can stay where his grandparents are but surely if im happier in lincoln then im going to give him a better life?? and if i can arrange all the support for the schooling and transfer hospitals and things then its not really selfish is it. I would appriciate it if some one could give me a little advice please. ↓
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