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Hello Pippy!
I am a 35 year old female that lives each day with many of the traits of those with autism and ADHD. Please allow me to explain.
I was adopted at age 4 with some pretty severe emotional difficulties (which included hyperactivity, concentration problems, depression...) As I grew older, I gained some new ones (difficulty with light, sounds, vibrations, learning and memorization). I have not been diagnosed with autism but there are many days that I feel like the doctors messed up.
I live most days is a state of extreme stress.. trying to figure out how to deal with the harshness of what others consider to be "normal". Attitudes, activities, friends, everything has been made more difficult for myself and others around me. I easily become over-whelmed when people lie or are not honest with me. Emotions are reather extreme.
I also have what you call "rapid thought process"... I am sure you have experienced this with your son. Where he starts out great but by the time he gets half -way through something/anything, everyone's lost except for him. If he is like me, he has a great gift in inventing milllions of different things but really feels like no one understands what he thinks is simple. His simple is everyone eles complex.
I can tell you from personal experience, it is like living in a couple of different worlds at one time. And things become very confusing when your the only one who seems to understand what the heck is going on ..... that you might feel like your not speaking the same languge at all. Has the question" Where is this kid from and we are not from the same planet" ever crossed you lips?
Well, first, you are but your not living on the same planet. And, I promise you, the worst thing that your son can encounter is being in a world that says "Your world is wrong.. there is only one way to do things". Isolation is horrific and brutal.
So, here is some hope I have to offer you and yours.
First, you are not alone. There is hope.
Second, your son is a gift. His "disability" is actualy a type of genius. Not the kind that measures well with "society" tests and environments, but the kind of genius were individuals like Mozart and Jung came from. See, right now, there is the majority of the "spoken" world that determines what is ok or not, smart or not. So, your son...like myself, do not fit into that world. So what!
His genius is something that I believe is not easily tested for or understood. Only in the last 50 years has science started to acknowledge these types of difficulties. Your son is a pioneer of sorts. A soul who, for whatever the reason, is here to lead the rest of the world into a brighter more open exsistance.
In history, pioneers such as your son and you, have typically been labeled in a negative manner. When one group of the world's population dictates what the norm is, anyone that is not fitting into this is an oddity at best. This is one of the reasons your son is a Pioneer and so are you. You are not "of the norm" per say but are actually paving the way for the world to really understand what being human is about.
The world is at a point in history that we have been blinded by our greed, selfishness, and arrogance for too long. This is the universe's way of making us learn what really needs to be learned so that the human race can continue to exsist. People have a choice now. We either open ourselves to understanding or we will crumble under our own self-rightousness. You, your son, and your partner are the guides that are needed to accomplish this.
And, if you would like to respond, my e-mail address. is [email protected].
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