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Name: lost
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My mother and I use to be close and same with her only grandchildren. Until she got back together with a man who does drugs, lies and is abusive mentally to her - she has moved out of town w/ him and rarely see's her grandkids or me. She is on his schedule, so whenever he says he's coming to our town - she will then say she's coming over. This man has divorced her two times, they got remarried and the day after there wedding he tells her "This was a big mistake marrying you again". I'm heartbroken on the relationship I lost w/ my mother and heartbroken that my children are now suffering on not seeing her. I can not trust her anymore. Any advise? Some days I think it would be easier to say "I'm done, I don't want a relationship w/ my mother anymore" to avoid the hurt. But, then again she is my mom and I have great memories prior to the past ten years. HELP.
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Name: Michele | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 9:10 PM
Your mom needs help with dealing with why she is "co dependant" and keeps going back to this man. Unfortunately she can't get help until she admits she needs/wants it. Just be patient, let her know you love her and be there for her when she needs the help, and is ready for it 

Name: sonia | Date: Mar 2nd, 2006 10:17 PM
I agree with michele don't cut her off that won't help her 

Name: terri | Date: Mar 6th, 2006 5:14 AM
My mums very similiar as much as it hurt i cut her off 

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