| Rachel, (by the way, I love that name! It's my mothers). I most definitely cannot tell you what to do or even what is best for you, but I am a military wife and I know that it is definitely a bonus if one of you is "civilian" so that you are a constant in your children's life. I am struggling with the idea of quitting my job (I actually make more than my hubby...he's a sailor), when this baby comes (also our second), but I can't imagine the turmoil you're going through right now. I know from my experience, it would be almost impossible for me to leave my babies no matter how old, but four months is awful young. I truly hope you can come to a decision that you will be happy with. If you ever need anything please feel free to email me any time ([email protected]). I would be more that glad to listen to you. And if you decide to get out, then you already have a military wife to connect with! Good luck! ↑ |
| Rachel, I think that if you don't get out, you might regret not spending your kids' childhood with them later in life. You can always get student loans or grants later in life. Your children will only be little for a while. Enjoy them while they are young. There is nothing more precious than being a nurturing mom. Good Luck !! ↑ |
| Hey girl. I'm in the AF, and here's how it works for us. Prior to birth, you can either get Maternity Seperation or Maternity Discharge. Discharge is quicker, but if you want to get back in later (possibly), get a seperation. Then you will still be within your 8 year 'contract' and can join again if you need to. I wish I could get out. Good luck! ↑ |
