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What do i do? My daughter is so moody and she is "hard-headed". To ask her to just pick something of hers off the floor makes her angry. She will not keep her room clean or anything else. She is always sneaky and tells fibs. Help!!!!!!!!!!!!
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my daughter is bossy never dose what she is told if i ask her to go up shop she moans please help she gets on my nerves
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hello?
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You sould reward her.She probly don't feel like doing anything because you don't respect her enough.You might think you do,but you don't.Fibs.Fibs will stop when you start resecting.When I was a little girl my mom made me lie to her mother and she would lie to me.She was unbarabel!Igot use to it later own and we could tell each other everthing.You probly want to let her know she can talk to you.If you don't sort this out you might never grow close to your daughter. Tell her I said hey and I know what she's going threw.
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My reply,
You should sit down with down with your daughter and tell her how u feel about whats shes doing, = |
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hello?
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talk to her if this goes on for a while you should ask her questins other wise its just a thing she go though as a girl
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Oh,my God are you my twin? My daughter will be ten in March and I thought i was readng about her in your message. She fights me on everything especially picking up her things adn keeping her room tidy. She is sooooo moody and everything, absolutely everything is a crisis. She also lies alot and is very sneaky. i love her very much but I cannnot trust her.
Hang in there you are not alone. = |
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Boys are just as bad as girls, if you want to know. My teenage son would cry and fuss and felt that he shouldn't have to do any chores or keep up his grades or anything else because it was "his life". I don't know if this will work for everyone, but it has worked with him so far...
1. Write down what you expect her to do and the consequences of doing and not doing those things. Really think everything through and be complete. Both of you sign it. 2. Follow through! = |
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if she shouts at u leave but then wen it gets serious grab her and say im not taking anymore
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hey dnt worrie i am only 16 and to tell the truth i was just like that and its just a fase we go throught.
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In response to Susan with the 11 year old daughter.My daughter is the same age as yours and is on medication for hyperactivity.She is also very sneaky and lies about most things.
I can not get my daughtrer to pick up her things either and she does not listen .What concerns me most is that she spends more time looking for excuses for her lack of positive behavoir and I'm to the point when I'm not sure when she is telling the truth or not telling the truth. I am having a very tough time raising her and her father does not live with us .The most recent thing she did was to take the can of paint that was in her fathers place and she started to paint his walls with the varnish for the wood . He was beside himself.! To make matters worse,I am afraid to involve a man in my life because of my fear that the man will walk away as a result of how I'm reacting to her behaviours. = |
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Hi,
Gosh, do I know what you mean. My 11 year old is the same way. Have you had her tested for ADHD at school? If not, talk to her teacher and her pediatrician. Get her help now, cause it only gets worse if you don't. Sympathetically yours, DM = |
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hey my is normal
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I am twelve so I understand you. If I were you I would sit her down and talk to her when she is in a good mood. Tell her of your expectations. Maybe she'll listen.
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Talk to her and tell her that all you want to do is help her.You'll see that when she grows up she will think that why did she never do what her mum said because all she wanted to do was to help.My daughter is exactly the same and I went on a holiday and when I came back she begged me not to go again because she missed me so much.
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tell her a fib is a lie & that is not acceptable. it takes 2 2 argue & we r the mothers & they r the child. if they want 2 live like a pig do so in their room, door kept closed & let them roll in their mud. bigger fish will need 2 be fried in the near future pick the ones that really matter & dont let them distract u from that.
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Lisa, she is also going through stage in life...which doesn't help you if she has ADHD or ADD. Also, you should pick your battles as my doctor told me. I allow my son to keep his room the way he wants it 3 times a week, in other words, I do not go in and make him clean it up. The rest of the week, he is to pick it up. The rules though, my living room and other parts of the house will be 'accident free'. No kid toys after 7 pm. No kids shoes, etc. Whatever is left after 7 pm is thrown away. I give him three reminders prior. He lost some toys and his sandals the first week, but none since, and this has worked since he was 5. He is now 10. Hope this helped?
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i feel for you i have a 13 year old and for the most part she is awsome. However she has become a liar for everything. I feel this is ripping my heart out. I am strict but i always had good communication with her any ideas
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hey you can try to ground her and then if that dose not work you can tell her she will not get any money from u if she doe not do what you say e-mail me back if you wanna ask me more
E-mail: dave_the_man29@hotmail.com = |
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I have a 14 year old daughter and I'm only 27.When my daughter started high school she started to get involved in drugs and started smoking.But I couldn't stop her.Now my daughter is a drug addict and I've seen her going on teen chat and going on sex cam with perverts.
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well have you talked to her and see if there is something rong.im 11 and i think that is not how a 11 year old girl should act.
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I have been your daughter, in a way..
reading this makes me laugh...sorry, not being mean... I DID THIS TO MY MOM, looking back... i don't know the answer as in showing you what to do, from a moms point. but to say from a daughters I CAN RELATE just listen and be her friend.. does she know she has adhd??? We have adhd or add.. (your daughter & I) why i acted that way: I dont know and i look back and i hate myself for treating anyone that way let alone my MOM!! The best way i can relate it to tell you, I just wanted my mom to listen, really be there.. add/adhd makes geting any tasks or even get out of bed impossible. you could ask the smartest person in the world this question...and they could be dead wrong... SIMPLE SOLUTION: just ask her... she knows why... dont demand it and she proable not come right out... and just make a point that you would like to help her with what troubling her. I not a doctor but i believe THAT mothers know best. Good luck.. and if you want to her about my story with my mom go to forum::: I am 24 year old on RETAILIN, I am NORMAL! i just want to say i understand, these thangs are so emotional... god bless you. A* = |
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oh yeah, i forgot, how to help with cleaning up
rewards help they are good and challanges but what sometime i still dont understand i why we have to do these thangs maybe if you explain why you want these thangs done and ask her if she does know why these thangs need to be done.. she will understand and do them.. just a sugestion if i help you or you want to talk you can email me at amandachatsadd@hotmail.com = |
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i think she just wants something you dont let her have
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Take things from her.Thats what my parents did.
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My daughter is 20 and still being difficult when asked to tidy her room, (which resembles a bombsite all the time).
Althyough I know it may be too late to change her behaviour, I wondered if anyone had been successful in changing their 20 year old's attitude to chores or just keeping their room tidy? = |
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im looking for 12 or 11 year old boys to chat with or to date so if you find any can you e-mail me at myspace.com?my name is Jenna Tedesco so you can put that in the search box!okay!thank you so much!
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get off her back. i mean does she have a boyfriend? if she does it could be that.
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ownz
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hi
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Hi Lisa,
I'm an 11 year old. I know how we can be maybe she needs more attention = |
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I am 11 myself and I think u crowd her.Give her some space. I use to do the same thing.Sometimes I do.LOL.I think she will come around.If u need more advice e-mail me at Denise.Maddie@Bigstring.com
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im 11
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hi who wants to chat
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I want to date your daughter, I'm her age
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does anyboby want to be my friend
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hello
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are u a good friend people and do yall watch degrassi.
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sounds like my daughter.I think it is all hormones they cant control what is going on in there body and from what i read about girls this age it starts about 10 and hope it calmes down after 13..
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I know what you are going thru. My daughter is 12 and very much the same way. Everything I do is wrong. She is so negative and everything has to be her way or she gets so hyper. She really drives me crazy sometimes.
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what up yall;lp;p;lkj
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yo
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how old are you
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11 YEARS OLD GOING TO 6 GRADE LIKES FOOTBALL
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11 YEARS OLD GOING TO 6 GRADE LIKES FOOTBALL AND IS SINGLE AND WANTS A GIRL FRIEND
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I have an 11 year old girl with adhd and she definitely does the same thing, I just think maybe its the age their in, most of her friends are about the same. My problem is that I always have done everything for her and now I try to explain that she needs to take responsiblity for herself she gets mad and gripes. She is sometime caught in lies I have caught her telling, but I think back I was the same. This age they are really trying theirselves, trying to fit in while going through all these puberty issues. Hang in there, it will get better. Just don't give up stay strong on your values.
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hello
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Hi There,
You need to try frequensea my daughter has had adhd since she was 2 I have been to hell and back even contemplated giving her up for adoption and in the end resorted to ritlan. Killing me to see her on these horrible drugs I resorted to natural remedies still nothing I found helped her. Until I found Frequensea! It is a single celled micro organism that lives in the sea and stimulates the melatonin and seratonin in your brain also works on neurotransmitters of the brain. Gives an amazing effect so quickly. We know as parents usually ADD andHD kids suffer from depression with this product no more. This products is gods gift to us parents who have ADHD kids I have never looked back. Dont beleive me try it for yourself. For more info on product or how to get product you can visit me at www.myforevergreen.org/566944 or www.myplankton.com/566944 email me at rachaelpapalia@optusnet.com.au Have a look for your own peice of mind it is a life changing product. FrequenSea uniquely combines the best of land and sea nutrition and for the first time in history includes what many consider to be earth’s first Nutrients Dense super food. Marine Phytoplankton are small single celled organisms that live in the sea, these microscopic marine plants nourish the entire marine food web and have recently been documented by NASA to be responsible for up to 90% of oxygen in which we breathe. Imagine the profound health you can experience by adding the nutrients of 200+ ocean vegetable in your diet everyday. FrequenSea contains Marine Phytoplankton, rose, Frankincense, ionic sea minerals, herbs, Aloe Vera and Astaxantin all carried naturally in Cranberry, Blueberry, Apple concentrates with a twist of lime and a kick of ginger. 1. Mental The minerals, amino acids and minerals act as neurotransmitters in the brain, giving quicker thinking and greater powers of concentration. The hormones melatonin, GABA and dopamine provide pain relief, greater mental focus and good nights sleep. 2. Emotional The melatonin and serotonin precursor (nutmeg) provide greater emotional stability and instant feeling of wellbeing and hormone regulation of the whole body. The rose essence clams the nerves and mind, and the dopamine helps prevent distractions from obsessive self destruction addictions. 3.Physical All the essential nutrients support body regeneration, including vitamins, minerals, amino acids and omega 3 & 6 essential fatty acids also providing an instant result in energy. Ideal for just before peak performance. The astaxanthin is a unique and powerful antioxidant and anti-inflammatory agent because it gets into each and every cell in the body from the eyes to the liver to the brain. This helps with pain, mobility and detoxification. The herb rosemary has similar properties and assists the heart and memory. Ginger is well known for adrenal support and stimulation, providing energy and allowing the adrenals to regenerate, as well as being blood tonic. The ionic sea minerals facilitate all body metabolisms, from energy production repair. The fruit concentrates of noni, cranberry and blueberry are all powerful antioxidants, each its own healing properties. FrequenSeais a complete concentrated food. It has every nutrient the body needs, plus powerful natural medicines. It is completely natural, legal and it works instantly. Everybody feels better on FrequenSea. Find your highest potential with FrequenSea what your body needs. General Nutrition: Contains ultra-potent liuids to enhance brain function Cardiovascular Health: Supports a healthy heart Cholesterol: Clinically tested to reduce cholesterol Blood Sugars: Stablises blood sugar levels Neurological Support: Mental alterness, ADHD, parkinsons and general dementia Joint Health: Relieves pain and inflammation Skin Care: Psoriasis, dermatitis Vision: More effective than lutein Liver Health: Supports healthy liver function Sleep: Promotes better sleeping Energy: Increases energy More Omega 3: than fish oil, anitoxiandants not found in other products, phospholipids for cell membranes. It also has good alkaline -8-8.5PH = |
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hi wass up are email is lucky_william2000@hotmail.com
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hi baby lucky_william2000@hotmail.com
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hay im 12 ,smart,cute,and class clown
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im 11
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hi whats up
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was up
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hello
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wass up my e-mail is willams_spence@yahoo.com
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you can try the silent trement . What you do is if she gets angry you just ignore her as much as possible until she stops
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hi
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i like girlsthat are pretty and young
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ARE YOU NICE LISA
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shes needing a boy friend
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let her talk to someone her age
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i can help anyone who needs help
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hearther are you there
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I am 12 year old and i am look for a friends to taclk to
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how old r u ur on the net looking 4 a bf
god go to www.chatfamily.com and click on kids chat that should get u wat u need by the way im 12 = |
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Hi lisa, i too have an 11 yr. old and she has gotten very hard headed, although she is not sneaky, she does strech the story sometimes. alot has to do with her age but at this age she's also getting to that point in life with puberty coming on. believe me i have talked to her dr. and really there is nothing he could do. my husband and i just laid down some laws within the household and if they were not finished, things she likeddoing were taken away. my daughter got the hint after not being able to have friends spend the night and not being able to go skating every friday. i'm here if you'd like to talk.
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mechaune
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im 11 years old im lookin for many friends to talk to
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hello
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hi sext
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Hey Lisa, have u tried disipline. When she does something bad u MUST disipline her. Depending on age u should disipline her. Try taking her cell, MP3, iPod, ect. Or don't let her watch her favorite T.V show. Or don't let her have friends over or her go to theirs. If she had already planned something, cancel it. U MUST SHOW HER THAT U R IN CHARGE, AND SHE NEEDS TO LISTEN TO YOU.
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Hey boys who wants to have sex with a hot sexy 12-year old girl? u can lick my boobs, slice ur hand in my vagina, and touch my butt. I wanna feel ur dick
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hi sexy
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who want to suck my cock. want to have sex. like my dick
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what to suck my dick destiny
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hi lisa i would love to date your daugher
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im12
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hi are you there now
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destiny are you there now right back.
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hi i am an eleven year old girl and i hate where i am at its like every day that i have hade a good day on my adoptive mom will put me under the stress then she will leave under there. when i was a new born probaly my real mom berned me and when i was getting a wooping by my adoptive mom she turned on the hot water while i was in the tube. if u want to contac me about this just e-mail me @ djandtt@yahoo.com
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suck on my big juicy dick
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Add me on msn aaguus.93@hotmail.com i'll tell why she is like that
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hi wanna talk
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HAYA SXC YOO OKKIE AND WHT YOO UP TO..X
WANNA CHAT WIVE A SXC YEAR 9 GALE..X = |
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