| my son who is now 10 was in soccer also and it was anightmare he would do the same thing, fight with his teammates or whoever happened to be in his path at the time. I put him karate instead, of course its not a team sport but it teaches him so much more like self disipline and patience and so much more. Yes there has been times when he would get mad and not do what his instructer wanted, or argure with him, but the only one that would suffer would be him he would have to sit out and when he would decide to do what he was told he has to pushups or whatever before could join back in, and the best part is he is not allowed to fight no matter what and he hasn't, not in over ayear! I recomend karate for every ADHD kid. My son still drives me crazy, but he is somewhat more respestfull to other people other than me, someday maybe that respect willrollover towards me. But give it a try at least talk to someone else thats in it.GOOD LUCK ↑ |
| No it is not unusual to feel this way. Embarrasment caused by our children is the way we teach ourselve to realize there is something we need to teach to our children or realize what we knew as children our selves. When we were young we did not think about what other people said about us. But when we became adults over the years we gradually realize how important what people think of us matters.Does he realize what he is doing? Stop him and show him the reactions of the people. Other adults will say Oh my God only because they have children that do the same but theirs did not happen to do it at that chosen time. That is why they can judge yours. Try telling him that every time he reacts to the situation the wrong way you will take something form him. And he has to earn it back with his behavior. Your not a bad mother, your cornered. And the only way out is to feel embarrased. email me @ [email protected] ↑ |
