I cant go on any more I cant work, have fun theres nothing i can do with my son punishing me this last time I went away for two days and now he's out of control. My boyfriend won a trip to hawaii next month I want to go but i"m afraid Of what will happen when I get,or worse what will he put the babysitter through ↓
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How long ago was it that you went out of town? Did you explain to your son how long you would be gone and did the person you left him with stay on schedule? I would think these issues through before making a decision. But I do believe that you do deserve a vacation how you can have one guilt free I'm not sure but do you deserve it? You sure do! Good luck with whatever you decide. ↑ |
Tell them that you will reward them with something fun if they behave and you will keep count on what they do while you are away and the points will count for what they are earing. They do this because they think that you are ignoring them, which is normal for chidren 11-15. They do not want to be with you or with their friends too much because they are trying to find them selves at this time. Live it up and the kids will survive, your not being selfish! email me [email protected] ↑ |
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i do totally understand what your going through, my daughter is so controlling i feel as if i have got no life left, you sound as if you need a break and deserve one!!!! the best thing to do is to talk to your son, and as boogie says do a points system whilst you are away, tracy take your holiday and enjoy it your a great mom all the best to you ↑ |
maybe your son is reaction to what you do. I think that you feel that you can notdo thes things you want to do because of him It seen to me you have the problem. therefore begin a mother you have to let thing go for a while . that what begin a mother mean ↑ |
i understand your pain, i also lived in hawaii for seven years, what a toss up? i hope you are able to go and that your son will cope alright. ↑ |
just go any way i do not think your son will care if you leave. he probraly wont do any thing bad to the babysitter ↑ |
i wanna go so badly and i always wanted to go but i work as a air line hostess so i have to travel but i dont go hawaii i thought i was but i wasnt first class but its fun ↑ |
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