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Name: Me

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I am watching gals who come on here wanting to possible place their baby. They are replying to people on the boards, first thing you want to learn, esp. if you are to become a mommy, is how to tell if you are being played. Children often times play one parent against the other and that is what some of these gals are doing to all the prospective adoptive parents that are allowing it.
Like I tell my children, you keep playing these games someone is going to get hurt.
Frankly I feel for those of you who are falling for this. Please don't put yourself in this postion. I know adoption is harder then hell and I know it seems so lonely at times, but these gals are players and if they are doing this, they probably aren't even pregnant.
Hang in there, and don't spend too much time on this forum, it is way too low class.
Everytime I stop in it gets more and more disgusting and I get more and more angry at what these scamming scums are doing here. ↓

Name: stephaniewiggins | Date: Sep 8th, 2006 6:47 PM

not all girls are players. ↑

Name: seal | Date: Sep 8th, 2006 8:00 PM

if you don't like it here "me" then don't post. i have met many wonderful people on this forum. ↑

Name: Me | Date: Sep 8th, 2006 9:43 PM

I never said "all girls" I said "some".
I know how to protect my heart, and just to let you know, many of us will be here and elsewhere when you get frustrated with the whole process.
Baby Blessings ↑

Name: ajrl223 | Date: Sep 9th, 2006 2:41 AM

I agree with you ME! I think that it is like a feeding frenzy once one person posts. Maybe we have to redirect pbmoms and pacouples somewhere else. Sometimes I wonder how come we dont have smellivision or video hookups.. hmmm I dont know if I like that last option.. lol I could pass for a very very pregnant woman.. lol

This site has it's good people, what can we do to improve it?

Me but as you and I know that some people here just like conflict. I know it agrivates me as much as it does to you. I wish there was an ignore button on here so that those postings that are unremarkable could be clicked off... lol Gee that must be in my perfect little world.

Maybe this is how some of us get our kicks?? Hmmmmmm ↑

Name: sweetiepie | Date: Sep 9th, 2006 5:21 AM

Thanks Me! I often wonder why...we have all these "potential" matches on this board and none on any others...I have decided it is because many are playing games.,,,this board is soo bad.... it does not show the true meaning of adoption and yet...so many people are scrambling....

It just upsets me ..not at those that don't know..

And "stephanie wiggins" who are you or do I need to ask? LOL

Good luck all! and best wishes! Honestly I mean that!

Janet...you have to be a little better then that! LOL "S" "W" oh please... ↑

Name: stephaniewiggins | Date: Sep 9th, 2006 5:27 AM

MY NAME IS STEPHANIE AND I READ THROUGH THESE BOARDS AND HAVE NOT SEEN ANY POTIENTAL MATCH. I HAVE NOT SEEN ANYONE ON HERE SAY I WILL POSSIBLY MATCH WITH YOU OR ANYONE ELSE FOR THAT MATTER. JUST BECAUSE YOU DONT GET A MATCH ON THIS BOARD DOESNT MEAN A THING. ↑

Name: Me | Date: Sep 10th, 2006 6:19 PM

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Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 12th, 2006 11:53 PM

BUMP ↑

Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 14th, 2006 1:47 AM

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Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 15th, 2006 9:33 PM

We hate players! ↑

Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 4:37 AM

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