This "Carrieperson" sounds alot to me like juliann-
Lives in NH ? (Next to Maine)
Working with an attorney ? (Just like Juliann)
Wants to name the baby on the amended birthcertificate !
Just protect your hearts people, it sounds to me as though they can be one in the same ! ↓
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| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 3:07 PM |
Pierrot
I got that feeling as I read this morning. I did post to her about finding someone in NH. Since she is set on AP's from there. ↑ |
| Name: morescams | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 4:08 PM |
I thought the same thing. I was reading the play by play last night wondering if it was her. I like what Susie and Susan said about hoping for that 1% so I didn't say anything.
Did anyone hear from her on email?
Gabrielle ↑ |
| Name: Melis | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 4:11 PM |
| I thought the same last night when I read it. I thought that mostly adoptive parents work with attorney's, not birthmom's, am I wrong?? We've only been in the process for 3 months now so I wasn't sure. ↑ |
| Name: morescams | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 4:15 PM |
| the birthmom needs an attorney as well, to protect her rights. ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 4:59 PM |
| Excuse me but I am not the same person. You shouldn't be accusing people of things like that. Thats one reason why birthmoms are afraid to come on boards. ↑ |
| Name: susanandscot | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:06 PM |
Hi Carrie,
No one is accusing you, people just thought that you sounded similar to someone named Julieanne that posted here before. I know bmoms, or as jody put it first moms are cautious about coming here, but so are amoms.
Just be honest and I'm sure this board will help you.
Take care,
Susan ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:14 PM |
| It sounded like an accusation to me. Even if it wasn't intended to be one. ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:20 PM |
Carrie,
No not intended to be one. PBMs want to protect their babies and they choose the parents they think are right for them and their child. Lately we have had alot of scammers and people that just wanted to be nasty. We are not accusing you just she was letting people know to be a bit protective of their hearts until they are sure. As you would until you are sure.
We hope you are looking to find a wonderful couple to get to know and raise your child. As others it is too bad we are not in NH.
We hope you find a great couple in NH. If I knew someone to put you in touch with there I would. Maybe your attorney knows a good agency or other attorneys that have AP clients. ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:22 PM |
| Thank you for clearing that up. It's hard to filter out the scammers. I never suspect anyone of anything until I know more. I guess I am weird. ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:25 PM |
| I am going to keep working with my attorney because I am more comfortable with him and feel more safer. ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:34 PM |
Carrie,
You sound like you hae a good head on your shoulders. And we all wish you the best in your search.
If we see or hear of anyone that is in NH that comes in and is new we will let them know to post to you.
I posted some other info for you on the other post. Maybe it might help????
Tamara (love) ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:36 PM |
| I did read the information. My attorney said he got some profiles of families from his attorney friend. If I don't find a family that I like from the profiles I can give him that information and he can locate a family from that. ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:37 PM |
Good Luck Carrie and if you ever need help or someone to talk with we are all here.
Tamara ↑ |
| Name: carrieperson | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 5:38 PM |
| I will let people on this board know how it goes with the profiles. Has anyone heard of the family that adopts the child stay by the phone and wait for word that the mom is in labor and the family come hours after the child is born? ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 9:11 PM |
Carrieperson has been on here for exactly one day and yet she knows all about scammers as displayed in this post:
.Thank you for clearing that up. It's hard to filter out the scammers. I never suspect anyone of anything until I know more. I guess I am weird.
And then she knows all about adoption laws in each state as displayed in this post:
. every state has different laws.
And who could afford to go out and hire a lawyer and then not be able to keep a baby.
This whole situation reeks and is definitely in the 99% and not the 1%. ↑ |
| Name: 2poms4us | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 9:26 PM |
| Birthparents do not hire the attorneys- they contract with them and the adoptive parents are given the bill- part of the agreement in the adoption contract- usually under mothers expenses. ↑ |
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