| Name: kcg.65hotmail | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 4:33 AM |
| I *love* the name Aidan!!!!!!!! But we didn't think a Jaden and Aiden both in same family would work lol.... but ur name Aidan James is awesome!!! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 5:09 AM |
| Aidan is wonderful name (that is my 3 year old's name...Aidan Louis). It's a Celctic Irish name that means "Fire, Firery one". :) ↑ |
| Name: adoptionready | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 5:25 AM |
Well thats cool...I did not know that...I am part Irish...I need to look up the meanings of the names we have...I have for the other names I wanted.
I don't remember are you a GS or TS. If I remember it is a GS. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 5:50 AM |
| I'm a GS... I start my feritlity shots next week. I'm scared and excited at the same time. This is really going to happen. :) ↑ |
| Name: mommyinwaiting | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 4:08 PM |
| Hi momof1 I am glad things are going well for you hope everything takes as expected, good luck, Tina :) ↑ |
| Name: vbigelow | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 4:34 PM |
Jessica Sue.Your statement is categorically untrue. I do not appreciate having the birthmother perspective blown off so superficially because you don't want to face it.
Adoptionready,
My reference to the cm issue was to a post of Carolyn's. However, it was on another thread and I accidentally posted my response to this one because it was late and I lost focus. I still think it is de rigueur that you all recognize that others will pay for the rest of their lives for your joy. It might be nice to temper some of your elation with a show of respect for that. ↑ |
| Name: Anne | Date: Dec 9th, 2006 5:02 PM |
V, what do you care if Carolyn wrote the baby's birthmom is dialated? She was answering someone's question to when the baby is due. There was nothing wrong with that response. It was a truthful one!
As for adoptionready she should be elated and joyful about her situation that is coming true for her. She found a surrogate- so if she wants to shout it from the rooftops that is her right to do so!
It seems to me that you are trying to squash the happiness of anyone that posts good news on here.
There are birthmoms that genuinely are happy that they have found a loving family for their children. ↑ |
| Name: vbigelow | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 1:01 PM |
Anne,
I care when people's posts show disrespect to birthmothers. Discussion about how far someone is dialated objectifies the birthmother and makes the APs look like they are hovering like vultures. I felt a sense of revulsion when I read the post.
Of course birthmothers who place their children are happy when they find a loving family as opposed to an unloving family. That doesn't mean that what they are doing isn't unnatural or that they won't experience a lifetime of pain and regret because they did it. ↑ |
| Name: Jessica Sue | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 3:27 PM |
There was no disrespect shown at all...............and for you say that stupid statement about hovering like vultures and you are repulsed, again shows my point that your cup is always half empty.
Try to get over your bitterness Vbigelow. There probably are forums whose negative views are shared by others like you, but as for here we like adoption, and not only in the cases where YOU feel it is acceptable. ↑ |
| Name: vbigelow | Date: Dec 10th, 2006 8:34 PM |
Jessica Sue,
This is a site for participation from all sides of the adoption triangle. For you to say [[There probably are forums whose negative views are shared by others like you, but as for here we like adoption, and not only in the cases where YOU feel it is acceptable.]]]means that you are not willing to view any side of things but that which supports your agenda. Further, if I am asked to tolerate what I consider to be offensive, disrespectful statements and outpourings of joy experienced at others' expense, you should be more tolerant of my feelings, however abhorrent to you.
Lastly, my life is not limited to adoption issues. You have no idea whether or not my cup is half empty or half full. ↑ |
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