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Name: Scam Buster
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Adoption facilitators are middlemen (women): they can help bring those hoping to adopt in contact with those making an adoption plan. Adoptions are complete through attorneys, agencies, and state entities.

NO state has a mandatory adoption-specific licensing procedure, and not all states allow facilitators to operate. Adoption facilitators are NOT regulated and there is NO state or federal oversight of their activities.

While many adoption facilitators are knowledgeable and ethical, many are not, and it falls to adopting parents to do their homework!
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Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 9:37 PM
Please read 

Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 9:42 PM
A baby to love is not ethical. Becareful with them.
And to let everyone know Texas is not a facilitator friendly state. 

Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 21st, 2006 10:26 PM
Thanks Tamara. 

Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 4:51 AM
Hold Up Suki... your talking about a good friend of mine, and I don't appreciate you bad mouthing her. 

Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 5:27 AM
Sick of the adoption world already Suki and need a new area to rip off? I think the Used Car Mart is looking for people...might be more in your line of experience. 

Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 5:28 AM
Julie.. I don't think she is even good enough to work there 


Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 12:49 PM
Suki,
Just to let you know I don't work with the millinaire clients most of mine are normal everyday people like myself. I enjoy getting to know them and I do take a reduced fee in some cases because I would rather see someone in a home they loved than in a shack. Unlike facilitators that take a fee of 8k to release a phone number and name. And I will tell everyone herew hen I worked with a fac. 2 yrs ago. The fac. may pay for a few things up front for the PBM but, when you decide to work with one of their PBMs you pay them their fee plus what ever monies they have already paid out. Brand X charged us 7k at that time now it is up to 8k. Then they had pd her elec & phone for a month. And given her a wal-mart card and grocery money. So to get her name after 3 - 3-way conversations by phone it cost us $8200. They got their fee plus what they had send her in the 2 weeks they had talked wth her. (yes I did say 2 weeks) Most of them try to get these girls matched even sooner than that. She was a very high risk situation and they new it. We wanted a no risk or little risk situation. They had lied to her about alot of things and she got spooked after she found out alot they had told her was not true. They also kept telling her they would move her to Kansas the last month of her preg. so if they could not find the BF to sign it wouldn't matter they had people their they worked with all the time and it would go through. We found out after paying them all this money you can't pay expenses through a fac. if you are in TX. Holly Cow! We were already in trouble and could loose the baby and then we find out about what they were telling her about Kansas. She also was refusing to go to Kansas. But, they told her she had to if in the end there were problems with the BF. It seems that if you give birth in Kansas the rules are different. Not sure didn't care to find out further. Bad things happen to good people so ask questions. Get answers before you turn any of your money over to anyone.
And as far as Suki, people on here will I am sure make sure to keep reminding newbies not to work with you. Find another forum to haunt. 

Name: Scam Buster | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 2:38 PM
Hey - stay on topic!

Adoption facilitators are NOT licensed. 

Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 2:50 PM
Sorry it was just detailed topic. Next time I wil make a new heading. How to get screwed by facilitators BEWARE. 

Name: califadoptee | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 8:38 PM
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Name: califadoptee | Date: Nov 9th, 2006 1:27 AM
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Name: Jessica Sue | Date: Dec 2nd, 2006 3:45 AM
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