hello all, we have gotten an email from a lady who got custody of a little girl after her parents were in a wreck (plane), she says she is looking to give this little girl a loving and affectionate home and that she doesnt want money only the promise that she will be taken care of and loved. i have nothing but love for a child but i dont want to be scammed, i am a cancer patient and i cannot afford heart break, i would love nothing more then to have this little girl be my daughter.
Bree ↓
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| Name: tracy cruz | Date: Mar 9th, 2008 11:02 PM |
| be very careful!! this could possible be a scam from cameroon!!! they are very clever at making stories up ,mine was the mother died at birth and the husband couldnt cope.check archives of plane crashes,start to ask alot of questions first and see what they answer,you have the internet so try to find out.also the welfare or social services would be involved and the child would usually go to the next of kin,i know you want to believe it so much,so did i ,but it alwys turns out in heartache,how mant successful stories have you ctuaaly read about on here,xxxgood luck.xx ↑ |
| Name: Emily2008 | Date: Mar 9th, 2008 11:28 PM |
| I agree with Tracy. I think 99.9% of the time if any tragic event is used it is a scam. They don't ask you for money usually, just "fees". And when a child is left to someone if they are unable or unable to take care of the child social services always gets involved. They can't legally just hand the kid over to someone else, and if theyhave not legally adopted the child they have no legal right to place the child for adoption. I think that everyone has experiences with scammers, I have had 12 so far and not a single legitimate mother. But you just have to keep hoping, ask a ton of questions, and never ever pay fees, etc.. if things get to that point you HAVE to have alwayer involved or they will take you for all you have. There are a lot of people out there that know how desperate a lot of people are to have a baby and they are eager to prey on you, if something sounds too good to be true it generally is. ↑ |
| Name: brenda.patrick | Date: Mar 9th, 2008 11:33 PM |
| PCOSsurvivor I hope this is not the "match" that you refer to in the other thread? If so, I think you will find it is a scam. ↑ |
| Name: PCOSsurvivor | Date: Mar 10th, 2008 12:11 AM |
| thankfully im only in this right now with a tiny bit of my heart so finding out its a scammer wont hurt me too bad i think ill see where it goes and yes tracey i saw ur thread i kinda laughed at how dumb that person was but felt sorry for you, i always see all these women around saying i dont want this baby i hate kids i only had her cuz i was high (sorry dont care for spelling right now) why cant we just say hey uhm ill take your kid haha ↑ |
| Name: stacgr | Date: Mar 14th, 2008 10:22 PM |
if she doesn't want money then dont give her any, if all she wants is a loving family then she should have no reason to ask for money, If its a case of traveling expenses then you offer to visit them. But please dont part with it, it could be genuine but if judging by what you just said you dont deserve to be scammed so please, proceed with ution. i hope it has a happy ending for you and i would love you to keep me up to date my email is [email protected] if you ever need to chat please contact me
god luck ↑ |
| Name: Liane | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 8:48 PM |
| Does this lady's name happen to be Anita? Is the baby around 7 months old? I have a lady that has been emailing me for almost a week. She hasn't asked for money, but is wanting to "ship" her daughter to me without adoption papers being done first. Hope this isn't the same person. Let me know please. [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: KellyJude | Date: Mar 17th, 2008 9:08 PM |
| I have a lady now also anita wanting to send paper work to ship a little girl over to us surely a scam. ↑ |
| Name: mich | Date: Mar 18th, 2008 6:31 PM |
find out where she is from. Never go forward with anyone who is not from the US. Even so be careful. If they ask for money do not give it to them unless it is done through the your lawyer. That also means do not purchase them an airplane ticket. I know it is horrible you can't do these things. Unfortunately there are lots of people out there just looking to scam people. I am willing to bet it is a scam. If you would like you can always go forward find her a lawyer in her state. Give her the lawyers number and ask her to set up an appt. and go to an appt. that way they will know what to expect. If she is real she will go see the lawyer. if she isn't she will probably never call the lawyer. This way if she isn't real you don't lose any money. I would get her to call the lawyer as soon as possible that way you don't get to many feelings invested yet in case it isn't real.
Good luck,
Michelle ↑ |
| Name: caraway | Date: Apr 9th, 2008 1:35 AM |
| we will adopt call us at 2023880477 or email at [email protected] ↑ |
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