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I am only 15 and I just found out I am 2 months preg...My bf left me and wants nothing to do with the baby...My mom is super mad and kicked me out...I am staying at my friends house, but they can't keep me here forever...My dad dies 4 yrs ago and I have no one...I am SO scared...Should I have an abortion, I can't be a mother now...Theres no way...Please help me. ↓
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| Name: Joi | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 8:26 AM |
Dear Jolle,
I can't tell you what to do, but I can say that abortion is really hard to deal with. There will always be the unknown. With adoption you will alway know, as long as you go with an open adoption. Have tried to talk to a counselor at school. You can also try plan plarenthood's in your local area. They can even, in some case, set you up with a place to live. I know ours does in my home city. They can lead you to all the right places. Plus they will help you in your decision to abort or adopt. If you would like to talk you can e-mail me at [email protected].
With love,
Joi ↑ |
| Name: Alicia | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 11:21 PM |
| I am looking to adopt myself. I don't know if you are leaning toward the adoption side but let me know. I want to chat with you. ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 11:33 PM |
| I cannot keep this baby....I really am scared and have no one. ↑ |
| Name: Jackie | Date: Dec 12th, 2005 11:45 PM |
Hi Jolle ... I hope you are feeling well.
It sounds like you are scared - but just know that things will work out for you and your baby - I am so sorry that your mom made such a drastic choice by not letting you stay at home :(
Joi has offered some really good advice - there are programs out there that will help you through this pregnancy... whether you chose an adoption plan for your baby or not.
Stay on the boards - there are alot or women here that would be more than happy to help you too :)
I am available to talk with or just listen - I have a toll free number 1.888.759.5188 - you can call me anytime.
I hope all is well .... Look forward to hearing from you soon!
Jackie
www.momdad2bee.com ↑ |
| Name: April & Jeff | Date: Dec 13th, 2005 3:18 AM |
Hi my name is April My husband and I have been trying to have a baby for a little over a year and a half now we are young 22 and 27 and active we love camping and bike riding to name a fiew. We have 2 chihuahas who are currently our only children. We are a christian family who goes to church. If you are looking for a couple please email me and We can tell you anything you would like to know about us and send pictures..Please help us make our dream family a possibility.
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Dec 14th, 2005 5:48 PM |
| Name: Wow, after 4 days | Date: Dec 14th, 2005 6:42 PM |
To, Jolle
I think you need to think about things before you go posting things to families under adoption. People here have hopes of starting a family and do not need little girls coming here and pitching there sad stories. You started of with should I have an abortion to adoption to I am keeping "IT" in 3 days. That great that you think your baby is a" IT " not as a baby. ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Dec 14th, 2005 10:16 PM |
| Well it is my decision....Even though I have no one to help me, I think I have the right to change my mind, and who knows, maybe I won't keep HIM OR HER...I will have to wait and see if I find the right couple or not ↑ |
| Name: Melissa & Tim | Date: Dec 15th, 2005 12:03 AM |
Hi, we are Tim & Melissa Hennis. Thank You for taking the time to read our letter! We admire your incredible strength and determination to find a loving and stable home for your baby. We feel that placing a child for adoption is the ultimate act of unselfish love and we really hope that the openness in your adoption process will give you the support you need and deserve. As you learn more about who we are, we hope that you will consider our home for your baby.
We both have always dreamed about having a family. From the time we met, we wanted to have a family together to be able to share in the closeness only a family can have. For the four years that we have been married we’ve dealt with miscarriages, tubal pregnancies and failed IVF. Our strong desire to have a family of our own and to be able to share our love is so big that the transition of deciding to adopt was an easy one, there was finally a light at the end of the tunnel.
(Wedding picture)
We met through some friends, started dated and got engaged after three years of dating. We are true soul mates and best friends. We got married in our home town with lots of friends and family and had a beautiful wedding. Shortly after being married we purchased our first house together and have spent a lot of time making it a wonderful home. We are both from the Ohio area. We love the outdoors, camping and fishing mainly. We have taken a lot of weekend trips to different cabins just to get away and we also go to Canada twice a year for fishing trips with both families, and just can’t wait to have a child to share all of our wonderful family vacations with
(Picture with Jimmy)
Tim works for the Village that we live in and has been employed there for 5 years. Because of the flexibility of his job, it will allow him to spend quality time with his family. Tim is a happy, fun loving person with a great sense of humor. People are drawn to Tim’s personality being he enjoys life and is a kid at heart. Tim is quite the handyman and is able to fix just about anything around the house. Tim enjoys golfing and bowling and helping out family and friends. Tim is the type of person that know matter what he is doing when someone needs something he stops what he is doing to help someone else. His thoughtfulness, wisdom, and tenderness will make him an amazing father.
Melissa has been employed with a local Hardware store in her home town for over a year. She is head cashier over 4 part time cashiers. Since we got married, she has stepped down her career to deal with doctors appointments and dealing with the chaos we have had for the past four years with infertility, also working this close to home it makes her available whenever something comes up at home. Melissa’s skills such as listening, empathy, understanding, and genuinely caring about others would be wonderful attribute to being a Mom. Melissa had a very active childhood that has continued throughout her adult years. She participated in activities such as softball and cheerleading.
Melissa also did a lot of babysitting in her teen years. She has always been drawn to children and loves to take care of them. She has a big family and even bigger now that she’s married with lots of little ones around. She always knew and dreamed about having a family of her own. Growing up, her family was constantly together. Her parents instilled a strong work ethic, helping others, and to be respectful to others. Melissa is a very kind and patient person who always see the best in everyone.
(Family pictures)
We both come from very close-knit families. Tim has 1 sibling and 1 niece and 1 nephew. Tim’s family lives close so we are able to see them often and share holidays together. Melissa has 2 siblings and 5 nieces who all live about 45 minutes from us, which we also visit a few times each year. We are excited about having a child to enjoy spending time with and celebrating holidays with.
We live in a 5 bedroom home in a nice family-oriented town. We are excited to welcome a new addition to our home to fill it with toys, giggles, and more love. Our community has some really good schools in the county and all of them are very close. The weather is beautiful changing from season to season, and we are a few hours drive from many amusement parks, zoos, water parks and much more. We have both been raised Presbyterian and come from loving homes. We continue to be strong Presbyterians and enjoy having God in our lives.
(Picture of Lyndsey)
Now meet Lyndsey, she is Tim’s daughter to a previous relationship. She is five years old and is in Kindergarten. She is a very fun loving, well mannered child with lots of energy. She gets to spend every other weekend Friday – Sunday with us and also an overnight during the week. We also alternate holidays with her biological mother. We all, (her father, her mother and two step parents) all get along very well. We try to make the transition for her as easy as possible. Lyndsey also, (on her mother’s side) as a younger sister which makes her a wonderful big sister and she would be a wonderful sibling for your child too. She is very good with younger kids always being the leader and looking out for them. She keeps trying to figure out why we can’t have a baby brother or sister for her.
(Picture of Tim & Lyndsey)
Tim spends every minute possible with her and is a great father. I have never seen a man that can act like a fiver year old as well as him just to make her happy. He enjoys playing in her room and also in the backyard with her. He couldn’t be a better father. Melissa also spends as much time possible with Lyndsey, she is a very loving step mother. She loves Lyndsey as if she were her own biological child. Lyndsey enjoys time with Melissa because she feels secure with her. She shares a lot of secrets with her step-mother. Melissa has given her such a big shoulder to lie her head down on that she relies on Melissa to tell her what is bothering her, and no matter what it is either she will help her or get someone who can.
(Picture of Melissa & Lyndsey)
A child that we welcome into our home will grow up in a home full of unconditional love and tenderness. We will make sure they feel safe and secure in our love and know that we will always support them. We believe in the value of education and will provide these children the opportunity to go to the college of their choice. They will discover their own unique interests and we will do our best to help them reach their goals.
We are excited to welcome a new baby in our loving and caring home to make our family complete. If we are selected, we want to assure you that your child will always know they were adopted, loved by you, and what a tremendous gift you gave when you placed him/her for adoption. We are open to having communication, sharing letters and photographs. So, if deep in your heart you feel that we are the right fit for your baby and that we are the kind of family that you would want your child to be brought up with, please contact us at [email protected].
(Family Picture Tim, Melissa, Lyndsey and Jimmy)
With lots of love,
Tim & Melissa ↑ |
| Name: Steve and Joi | Date: Dec 15th, 2005 1:03 AM |
Dear Jolle,
We are glad to hear that you did not have an abortion. Just remember that being a parent is a big responsibility and it should not be taken lightly. I'm not saying that you should not keep your baby, what I'm saying is weight all the options and keep an open mind. God will lead in the direction that is right for you. If parenting is the route that is good for you just remember that plan parenthood and The Children's Home Society have programs to help single mother be the best they can (and it free). Good luck in the path that you end up on. Either way we are here for you.
Steve and Joi ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Dec 15th, 2005 1:09 AM |
Yes, you do have the right to change your mind, but you should have thought about it more before you posted. It not far to anyone here that you post just because you felt in the moment. You need to have a better idea what you want to do before you start involving others. I find it funny that you stated " who knows, maybe I won't keep HIM OR HER...I will have to wait and see if I find the right couple or not " So with that said you really don't know.
But I have to remember what your age is you are only 15 years old and it shows! ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 8:02 PM |
Jolle,
I am very sorry to hear you were thrown out of your house. Please feel free to email me at [email protected] and I will give you my number so you can call me collect. I would love to adopt a baby but I would also like to help you as well. Please email me. ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Jan 1st, 2006 8:27 PM |
Where are you at? I have a place for you If you want to come stay and rebuild your life over good schools and all email me"
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Kim | Date: Jan 2nd, 2006 1:56 AM |
| I was going to offer the same thing. Jolle you are being looked after. So many want to help you so remember you do not have to do this on your own. ↑ |
| Name: Elizabeth | Date: Jan 4th, 2006 11:54 PM |
| Bless your heart.. my husband and I are seeking independent open or closed adoption situation. We have experienced many pregnancy losses and will not be able to conceive our child and carry to term. I believe that any woman who wishes to give her baby/child by adoption is purely an angel -- and a crucial connective gateway starting her child on its journey Home. Please contact should you like to discuss. Blessings, Elizabeth [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: kim | Date: Jan 5th, 2006 2:30 AM |
| if you need a place to stay you can always stay with me and my husband. and kids i am really wanting to adopt. i would love to talk to you. email me and if your interested i will give you my number thanks. with love your not alone ↑ |
| Name: Jade | Date: Jan 7th, 2006 9:43 PM |
Dear Jolle, You have to ask your self do you want the baby or not beacause No one can make that descion for you.
But people can help you maybe you should go live with a relitive good luck bye ↑ |
| Name: Jolle | Date: Jan 9th, 2006 9:56 PM |
| Not Looking To Give Up Baby Anymore ↑ |
| Name: steven | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 4:35 PM |
| Name: Mirla | Date: Jan 12th, 2006 8:00 PM |
Hi Jolle,
I was in the selm Situation us you.And i do the wrong desicion.
I will really help you.If you like i can give you a home and help you to find work .And mayby we can help you with your baby, clothes...and so on. But have no abortion.I did have one.And now....i cant never became a baby.I have all....house ,no finically problems....a sweet husband....but no baby....
And so i will sad for this the rest of my life.
( Sorry for my bad english)
Thats the reason that i will help you.If you need and like ....write my at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Katherine | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 5:06 PM |
| i am wanting to get pregnant but i can't! can you help me ↑ |
| Name: BRITNEY | Date: Jan 13th, 2006 5:07 PM |
| Katherine how can i help you? ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn & Louis | Date: Jan 18th, 2006 4:17 AM |
HI ! We are Carolyn & Louis, and are hoping to adopt a baby to love. Thank you so much for reading about us, and considering us as parents for your little angel(s).Your strength and love for your baby is an inspiration for which we are grateful.
Louis and I have been happily married for almost 14 years. We want to share our love and adopt a baby or twins, as we are are unable to conceive ourselves. We tried numerous attempts at fertility treatment for years that never resulted in a pregnancy despite all of our prayers.We are Episcopal, so he or she will be Baptized and raised in the Christian faith.
We can offer your baby a wonderful, financially stable, and joyful life. We live in a quiet,residential area of Colorado,and own our beautiful four bedroom home on a dead end street. The baby`s bedroom already awaits with a picture window, overlooking our backyard; Deer and bunnies are prancing on our property daily. We live very close to parks and playgrounds with stunning views of the Rocky Mountains.
Lou and I both have excellent positions; Lou is a pilot for a major airline, and I am a corporate sales representative for a nationally known company. The baby will enjoy an active lifestyle. We belong to the local pool club, and enjoy skiing weekends and enjoy special family vacations regularly.
We are both college graduates, so we understand the importance of an outstanding education,which we will provide the baby. He or she will have the best life has to offer.
We are flexible as to open or closed adoption, the choice is yours. We want you to be completely comfortable with us !
Please consider us as parents for your little angel, and complete the family we have always wished and prayed for. Thank you for taking the time to get to know us, and most of all for being so special for choosing life.Please email us,or call us TOLL FREE ANYTIME.God bless you.
Gratefully,
Carolyn & Louis
TOLL FREE (Home) 1-800-643-2962
[email protected] email
Read more about us at: http://www.adoptionready.com/carolynandlouis/ ↑ |
| Name: Christie | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 6:25 PM |
| Hi. We would love to talk with you about your options that regard your unborn child. Please email us anytime at [email protected] or visit us online at www.justinandchristie.com. Thanks, and Many Hugs, Christie ↑ |
| Name: sherry shaw | Date: Jan 24th, 2006 8:23 PM |
| we are looking to adopt a baby and would love to help you out. please email us with more info at [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: kimberly | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 2:12 AM |
| would love to adopt your baby my email is [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Tammy Bridges | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 3:59 PM |
| Hi my name is Tammy Bridges 39 and Husban is 41 we would love to adopt your child and we would also like you to be a part of the child's life , we can keep you informed about the child. We live in Maine Please call Day or night 207-567-4022/ 207-322-4022 or email [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Kate | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 11:17 PM |
| Jolle you can reach me at [email protected] if you need help or just want to talk. ↑ |
| Name: Brittany | Date: Feb 11th, 2006 1:21 AM |
Jolle,
Hi sweety. I do not know what you are going through,but I am interested in possibly adopting your baby. Do you think that is an option you would like to consider? I am a preschool teacher and I am 20 years old. My husband is in the Military as a Chaplain Assisstant. We live in a two bedroom house in Tennessee. I can see that you are scared. I beg of you please do not have an abortion. I am offering you the option for someone to adopt your child honey so let me know. My e-mail is [email protected].
In Christ
Brittany ↑ |
| Name: sshaw | Date: Aug 21st, 2006 2:52 AM |
| we can help you. we are looking for a baby to adopt and if you need a place to stay u can too. ↑ |
| Name: gina7273 | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 10:19 PM |
Hello,
I would love to learn more about your situation. I wont carry on through this link so please email me and we can chat. Thanks and good luck with your decision. Gina
[email protected] ↑ |
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