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Name: jamiea

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I am 40 years old and I feel like time is running out fast to starte a family. My husband has a son by a previous marraige and we have been unable to concieve. This is all I can think about everyday and I am going nuts, I think! It is hard for me to be around people that talk about babies or just to see a commercial about baby items. My husband wants a child very badly as well, but he does not understand these feelings of not ever having a child. And I cant describe them. I just found this website yesterday. So if I sound desperate in a search for a baby please forgive me. I am not a whacko, just wanting a family to call my own. thanks for listening ↓

Name: S.M.B. | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 2:53 PM

Did you seek proffesional advice or have exams for your husband and yourself? Talk to a doctor and find out all of your options and what might be the cause. Best wishes. :-) ↑

Name: jamiea | Date: Jul 14th, 2006 5:39 PM

I am able to have a child. My husband had a vasectomy for 13 years. WE had a vas reversal 2 years ago but no baby yet. He is scared to get tested I think. Because he knows it will make me feel bad if he has a low or no sperm count. So i do not pressure him to get tested. I am looking into sperm banks as well. ↑