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Name: trina6913
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we are trying to adopt a baby boy but we had something major come up...and we now need help raising some money...we were about 1,000 dollars away and all of a sudden we had a medical emergency....thanks...
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Name: lisette | Date: Sep 13th, 2006 11:10 PM
Trina,

I feel bad for your cicumstances, but do you really think it is appropriate of you to come on here and ask for financial assistance from others ?

Adoption is expensive, we all know that. However, we all are trying to adopt, and I don't think this is the place to ask for charity.

Ask family or your house of worship. They are better resources. 

Name: lisette | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 7:55 PM
Are you still adopting this baby ? 

Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 9:43 PM
Trinia I wish you all the best with your adoption, but I do agree with lisette. I don't think this is the appropriate place to ask for financial help. All the families on this board are trying to adopt, and will be in the place you are right now. Adoption is no expensive. I hope you will not take offense to what I have said, this was not my intent. Good luck with everything! 

Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Sep 26th, 2006 10:46 PM
Name: trina6913 Title: Wanting to adopt a baby!!

My husband and I are wanting to adopt a baby....He has a good paying job which alows me to stay home...we travel all the time! Please contact us at [email protected] 

Name: Luann | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 3:30 PM
I think Trina is asking how to RAISE money..not ASKING for money. 

Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 3:38 PM
Luann,

Trina is asking for money from the IPs here on babycrowd. But, in another post she says she is a stay at home Mom and her husband makes great money and they travel all the time. What happened to that money? Now there is a post from her wanting an AA baby. 3 posts all different. 


Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Sep 27th, 2006 11:24 PM
Wanting to adopt a baby need help financing adoption
This is what her incomplete website says....they're not asking for ideas on how to raise the money..they're wanting donations. Trina also goes by the name of Tasha. 

Name: Luann | Date: Sep 28th, 2006 2:06 AM
Alrighty then. Just trying not to jump on someone unnecessarily. 

Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Sep 28th, 2006 2:46 AM
I don't think anyone wants to jump on someone unnecessarily and I understand your concerns. 

Name: trina6913 | Date: Sep 30th, 2006 7:27 AM
wow...I never would have thought that this post would cause such an uproar....sorry. To answer all of your questions...
My husband does make good money, I don't work (I get to stay home and do whatever i want to), we do travel...but it dosent have to be out of the country (so it dosent necessarily mean that it has to cost an arm and a leg), my nickname is trina and my real name is tasha (i dont see the big deal in that), and yes we do want to adopt an african american baby so... and we did have money in our savings but us being the good people that we are we helped pay for a funeral for my 18 yr. old cousin that pased away due to a mortorcycle accident. Plus we just got done paying for some test for nick's mom Cindy....which is not looking very good...the doctor says that she will need to have back surgery. Its too risky some of the doctors said and they wont even touch her...so ofcourse it cost money with everysingle doctor you meet with. Sorry for upsetting everyone... I guess when it rains it poors. I just hope that things will start looking up for us. So for all of you people thinking that this is a scam or something its not...i was just seeking help. I have much better things to do with my time than trying to cause problems. 

Name: Pattyjb | Date: Sep 30th, 2006 12:53 PM
awe.................... 

Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 30th, 2006 4:08 PM
I don't think anyone is accusing you of being a scam. Were just trying to say this is not the appropriate place to ask for financial help with your adoption. Everyone of here that is trying to adopt and they too will have to pay for an adoption. But I wish you all the best in your adoption! 

Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Sep 30th, 2006 9:18 PM
Trina, your post didn't really cause an uproar...most of us just couldn't understand why you stated in one post how well off you were and in the next you're asking for donations. You said that you can stay at home and "do whatever I want" when most of the ladies on here have made a lot of sacrifices and worked hard for the funds to enable them to adopt. Maybe you could get a job to raise the funds you need? 

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