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Les I'm sorry if I was mistaken. There was alot of vulgar things written about me this afternoon, and I was wondering why you were only defending "I am Janet" ↓
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| Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:31 PM |
| why did you decided to pull just my post...there was nothing vulgar about what I wrote. I was only curious. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:32 PM |
| can you please give me a number that I can contact you directly? ↑ |
| Name: les | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:41 PM |
I was trying to bring some clarity... I have numbers, that is all... Ip adresses.
Sorry my "horid" "grammer" offended some masters... while i was trying to protct everyone's privacy....
I've removed any posts that dealt with mistrust towards me... Hopefully that will convince you in my legitimacy..
Of course i'm offended... but that is true - my English grammar is not my forte...
I really regeret our copywriter had urgently put me on this task by thye end of friday...
Reagrdless i still think it is very wrong publically revealing someone's private info without their concent, i'm also quite sure it is a CRIMINAL OFFENCE. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:44 PM |
| I now belive you say who you are. Did you read any of the post from this afternoon? Alot of them were sickening and threatning. i think that shoud be a criminal offense. I called Hearthstrings earlier today to let them know what was going on. ↑ |
| Name: les | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:50 PM |
Yes i did read some.
That is why i got pulled onto this task.
I far as i read, noone stated your full name and noone threathen to kill you, and you were only addressed by a nickname.
Janet called us because someone was threatening her life. Actually calling her, not on the forum. Also she got the police involved.
And i can say with 100% certainty - none of the postings this morning were Janet's...
We've contacted AOL and we're hoping they cantrack that person down ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:51 PM |
Les,
If you are legit that is wonderful. Let us ask you to do some reseach on Janet Posey. You will find all kinds of things. You will also find that alot goes back to her. Weither it be her, her husband, her niece or roommate as she says. But they are all leading back to her. You were brought in today for the reason of pulling vulgar posts by a scammer. In that you saw Janet at her best trying to befriend someone and smooze you and others.
Thank you in advance for your help and for removing the vulvar posts today. If you need information to do your research feel free to ask anyone. Someone just posted several sights with Janets info. ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:57 PM |
Les
Really what did you read this AM or this PM. Janets name was not in anything this AM Heather 77 was posting about momof1, and me. My name is my post name. I have nothng to hide. Research me. It will show you I am who I am.
This afternoon I am Janet took up for us because this Doris355 was calling Mom and I every 4 letter name in the book. I don't use the C word and very rarely do I call people a B.... But , this was called to me. Mom was told she molested her child and there was alot more. If you were told they we directed to Janet your information was WRONG!!!!!!! Janet or not the person that post this AM and PM should be stopped this person is on here everyday and called people burgers, fish C---, stinky feet and more. She uses the same names and the same language. So we know it is the same person.
Les, you should have looked at all of them not just the ones from Janet! ↑ |
| Name: les | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 9:58 PM |
Snooping is not my forte either. i'm a programmer. And not a she, but a he. :-)
I dont care who janet is - i was trying to say what the numbers say. I'd leave it up to you to draw conclusions. ↑ |
| Name: les | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 10:02 PM |
tamara.
AOL is blocked and as you see noone posts anything obcene.
It is a very bad practice - to reveal your own name like that. I would suggest, for your own security - delete this profile and start a new one... Without your real name...
Just a precaution. ↑ |
| Name: Heartstrings | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 10:05 PM |
| It is a matter of public record, no criminal offense. ↑ |
| Name: les | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 10:06 PM |
| :)) I'm not a lawyer either... :) ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 10:47 PM |
Les, I don't mind having my name there. I am who I am. If someone from here asks I tell them. So why not just post it.
Tamara ↑ |
| Name: sdt1977 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 11:07 PM |
| This being an adoption board / forum whatever its called, isnt it best PAP's and PBM's alike post thier true identity so it is never questioned whom they are? I dont get the hiding your real name thing at all. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 22nd, 2006 11:57 PM |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 2:47 AM |
This has been bugging me and I just thought I'd drag it up again to make a point.
"Les" says here (6th post down) that he can say he is 100% sure that Janet was not the culprit.
And then on the other thread titled "AOL is blocked for the weekend", "he" says
"Dear users!
We found out that the person was using dynamic IP from AOL.
So the only temporary solution - i've banned entire AOL IP range froim seeing this site.
We've also contacted AOL and they are trying to track that person down on their end also."
Then Janet posts on that same thread....
Name: I am Janet • Date: 09/22/2006 16:08:23
Les, Thank you I do have AOL but I am @ work so I thank you for all your help....My Name has been ran in the mudd and I am not like they say I am, Once again. Thank you =
Now the question I have, how can "les" say Janet was not the culprit when quite clearly she could have been because they have no way of tracking AOL Ip's? ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 2:55 AM |
Les,
Do you work for baby crowd? I think you should post something like this on your site:
Chat Rooms are NOT places for adoptive parents to solicit birthparents. It is not appropriate for hopeful parents to post “I can help” messages, or internet addresses for birthmothers to visit, or to send this type of e-mail to birthmothers.
Conversely, it is not appropriate for birthparents to use the Chat Room to solicit adoptive parents. There is no way of knowing which parents on the message board are qualified to adopt.
We recommend that you search for licensed adoption agencies in your state. Any of these agencies can assist you with options planning.
Les, people are using this site as a place to try to find potential birthmothers. Did you intend for this site to be a place for people to arrange adoptions? ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 3:01 AM |
Luckey you wanting to protect all the young innocent potential birthmothers who come on here is commendable but have you considered that 99% of the posts are from scammers and liars?
Don't believe all that you read. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 3:07 AM |
juliedunesnet.
Sorry, I tend to believe what I read. I have a weakness for wanting to save everybody. ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 3:17 AM |
| Luckey I understand that but trust me...most of the plaintive "help me I'm confused" emails from pregnant teens are bogus. Unfortunately the adoption (and surrogacy ) world attracts sickos wanting to play with people's emotions. Most of the women on here have been scammed either financially or emotionally and we get pretty defensive when someone attacks us. We're sitting ducks for anyone with a computer, time on their hands and an even slightly malevolent attitude. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 3:20 AM |
| Well, I apologize to the legitiamate women on this site. I think les needs to look into some of the comments that have been made in the stay at home forum between a couple of ladies too. Personally, I don't plan to ever post on babycrowd again. Actually, this is the first forum I have ever been on, so you can imagine my shock! Good luck! ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 3:23 AM |
| Luckey I see you are a member of WWT group...I'm on there as well as TRD. ↑ |
| Name: tamara anderson | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 9:58 PM |
Luckey
Some of your post sound a bit like someone that used to be one here and she was a scammer. Not that you are. But, you just said you were not on anything else and you are on wwt.
I guess sence you stated on the 31st you would not be back then you will not even get this.
Maybe you took others advice and did go away. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 10:09 PM |
Tamara,
Babycrowd is the first forum I ever participated in. I am not a scammer. I am not taking anyone's advice to go away. I will post only when I think necessary. I need to go now. Have a nice evening! ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 10:13 PM |
Just to clarify what I meant about posting when I felt it was necessary. Here is an example:
I posted this today in response to a women who expressed that she was pregnant and emotionally abused by a man who was going to kick her out of the house. She was also pregnant. I was the first one to offer her advice that could actually protect her and her kids.
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Name: luckey_in_life • Date: 11/01/2006 15:38:16
You said that you are being emotionally abused and have no where to go. Have you considered contacting your nearest Family Services Agency? Or, maybe you could call some relatives and ask for help until you get back on your feet. I am sure that your children are also suffering the effects of the emotional abuse. Maybe you could contact a women's shelter or resource center. Look in the yellow pages. Good Luck
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I was somewhat disappointed that no one before my offered any advice other than they were interested in adopting her child. ↑ |
| Name: Pattyjb | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 10:22 PM |
| I think it would have been cool if the abusive spouse was shown the door... get real tired of seeing the victims being victimized a second time and having to leave all behind. Believe me, I know because I have lived this. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 10:28 PM |
| I have volunteered at a crisis center in the past. We learned to refer people to the best resources that could help them. It really is sad to see women victimized. ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 1st, 2006 11:58 PM |
| Luckey the problem with the post you're referring to is that the not so underlying focus of that post was the money issue. The poster seemed to be asking for expenses and costs to enable her to move out of an abusive relationship. This is definitely not the forum for that type of help...especially when you appear to be using your own baby as the carrot. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 2nd, 2006 1:01 AM |
| I agree. She needed to be directed somewhere else. ↑ |
| Name: 2poms4us | Date: Nov 2nd, 2006 3:30 AM |
I really don't think that this woman is dangling her baby as a "carrot". She is scared and not sure where to turn, she also stated that she just started to consider adoption. A lot of potential birthmoms have no idea how to start and most start by looking for info in the internet. I believe that she was just giving all the info about her situation to make it clear that there will be drama involved with her and her family. I am sure she does not want to be judged by anyone - just merely warning pap's that it is not an easy situation. We have spoken to several pbm and they usually put all of that out there in the beginning to make sure we would like to proceed with them- somehow they are afraid no one will want them because of their life choices or life style.
This is just a forum - people can ask questions and try to get info from others that have had experience. Sometimes they need to be guided in the right direction. ↑ |
| Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 2nd, 2006 3:53 AM |
| For someone just starting to look into adoption, it was probably not appropriate to ask for money and expenses. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 2nd, 2006 11:28 AM |
juliedunesnet
I agree with you. This blind trust is why some of the potential adoptive couples are easily taken advantage of and scammed. They are very eager to adopt and some will even jump at posts like the one we are referring to. ↑ |
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