We are looking into adoption. How did you started? Any advice will help us out. You can email us: [email protected]
Thank you for taking your time:
Thomas & Michelle ↑ |
| I got started by doing searches online about adoption and looking at all the diff. agencies. Both adopting here and outside the U.S. I sent off for material from the ones that offered them. wne through those read everything I could. My husband was ll for it...But I didn't want to go through an agency........the way it seemed to me was that we weren't adoptiong a baby....but instead legally buying a baby instead of going black market. And I just couldn't do it for the longest time...then the more we talked the more I wanted to....so we started our homestudy when I met a young woman who was having triplets...during the course of our relationship she lost one of the boys but she still wanted us to adopt the other two. This girl never asked for money and didn't want it due to the fact anther woman looking to adopt offered her $10,000 for her babies outright. She said she couldn't live with selling her babies. And after they didn't survive we were heart broken and so was she. I still talk to her and she is preg. again with a little girl that she is chooseing to parent. So we are still holding out the hope that one day our dream of having a family will come true as I am sure everyone else trying to adopt feels the same way. I wish you the very best of luck in your travels to adoption. ↑ |
| Yes I know it is very rare....we got very lucky that this girl and I happened upon each other.. Now I could care less if you beleive it or not...I have nothing to prove to anyone nor do I have any reason to lie about anything to anyone for any reason. You have no idea the rushing around I did trying to get a room ready for those babies and get everything we needed by myself. My husband was in Iraq at the time and all he could do was be supportive. You have no Idea how I felt not knowing why every mth. for two years I never once got a positive ept test. Or how I felt knowing I could never give my husband any children. You may choose to beleive what ever you want to. But I went through all that and I delt with it. Now if you choose to beleive that things don't happen for a reason and that there are amazing things that do happen every day....then I am guessing your not as hopeful as you once were. All I can do is keep my hopes up and know that everything will work out in then end. And even tough your reply was very mean I wish you the very best of luck in your own search for ....whatever it is your looking for. Good luck to you. ↑ |
