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Name: mommyinwaiting

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After reading so many different messages, I have seen how many wonderful people are waiting to grow their family. We have an attorney, but have not wanted to go through a facilitator because of their fees. I am hoping that the right person(s) will see this and will contact me to see if I am the person they want to take care of their baby. I can't imagine the pain, hurt, and being scared of what the right thing to do is. I only know what it is like on my end waiting. Hopeful that I too will make the right connection. I can't have any children on my own. We signed up with an attorney in March, but have had no luck yet. If you are a birthmom looking to place your baby or an experience adoptive family with words of wisdom please feel free to contact me at [email protected] ↓

Name: momof1 | Date: Sep 28th, 2006 12:17 AM

I wish you all the best in your adoption journey! :) ↑

Name: mommyinwaiting | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 2:08 PM

momof1 thank you for your reply. We are hoping every day that the right situation will come up. We also try not to get TOO excited each every time a "situation" becomes available. Waiting to be matched is so full of ups and downs.... ↑

Name: Pattyjb | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 6:14 PM

Are you listed on parentprofiles.com we have had three live hits and should have been parents several times over by now through them. We always have had family reclaim from us. ↑

Name: mommyinwaiting | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 11:54 PM

Hi Pattyjb, no we are not listed on parentprofiles.com we are working with an attorney. Yesterday I had mentioned a birthmom that hasn't placed and I put the attorney's name and number on the message. However, proceed with caution as I wouldn't want you to be disappointed. She has used meth, I have even learned this afternoon she used as recently as last week. I don't know what a baby is like born with meth in his system so I would advise talking with a pedatrician before deciding to go forward with a match. My husband and I met the birthmom, who is very nice and open and surprisingly honest. But for us there were too many red flags and we already have a beautiful son 18 months old with special needs and would prefer to adopt a newborn or young child who is healthy. Good luck to you don't give up it is worth it. Every time I look at my baby's face, hold him in my arms he is worth every extra step that we take with his surgeries, therapies. He has taught me more than I ever thought possible. You are always welcome to contact me at [email protected] ↑