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Name: Mandy

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This is for everyone who posts their Dear Birthmother letter to every potential birthmom. You need to take the time to read their posts and previous posts instead of pasting your Dear Birthmother letter and that's it. Why should they believe that you care about them when all you do is post your letter and leave. You are showing NO interest in them at all by doing this. Take the time to read the posts and get to know them and if they are intersted in you then send your Dear Birthmother letter. I've seen MANY of the same letters just pasted over and over again and I'm not suprised you have not found a birthmom yet. It is very obvious that all you want is their baby and don't care about them personally. Please be more considerate to these girls/woman who have a tough decision to make!! ↓

Name: Mandy, give it a rest......... | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 4:39 AM

Mandy, give it a rest................

So far none of these "women" who have posted that say they pregnant and looking to adopt, have been real.

FAY
KAT
need I go on ?????

None of the "women" have divulged enough info that it even matters ! Who cares if they cut and paste if that is what they are doing !

If a BM is real, let her contact a family via phone or email and THEN let the adoptive families write a personalized letter.

IF ANY ADOPTIVE MOTHER ON HERE, HAS ACTUALLY HEARD FROM ANY OF THESE BIRTHMOMS, THEN POST HERE AND LET ALL OF US KNOW !

Thank you ! ↑

Name: Amber Lee | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 5:48 AM

I don't see cut and pasting to be wrong at all............it seems to me that the couples who are doing that are just taking a portion of their profile so that the birthmoms can get a taste of what they are like.

I also have not heard of any birthmothers to have been real either.

If there is a post from a Adoptive Mom who actually has gotten a call from these BMs, I for one have not seen them either.

Has anyone ? ↑

Name: Mandy | Date: Feb 2nd, 2006 4:44 PM

I am NOT Fay/Kat I am new to the board and am just a little irritated by the fact that every time I read a post where a birthmom has found a family or decided to keep the baby people keep posting wanting the baby because they are NOT taking the time to read all the posts to find out what is going on with the birthmom. Even after there have been requests made to stop posting because they had made a decision people just keep posting saying I want your baby. If I was a birthmom I would be irritated too that these people just mass post their letters in hopes that one birthmom will jump on it. It's VERY impersonale and doesn't show a whole lot caring. ↑

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