Does anyone know what happens to the 'unwanted' families' profiles that are sent to birthmoms?
I am asking only because we had sent in our profile a while ago to an agency who agreed to present it to a specific situation. A couple days after recieving it, I was told we had not been chosen and that we could send in our remaining 4 profiles to be sent out for future situations we were interested in, if we wanted to take advantage of the registration fee I had paid.
We never sent in the rest of our profiles, as we weren't set on using their agency, we had just been very interested in a unique situation they happened to have.
Recently they posted another situation we were interested in, so I sent an email to ask if we could overnight a profile to arrive by Monday and be presented. They responded the next day with a [will do], but with Veteran's Day this weekend, I was unable to get our profile overnighted to arrive by Monday, as I had planned. This morning, I emailed her and said since we were probably too late to be presented, we would pass on the situation. She emailed back this evening and said- [OMG I already presented you. what if she picks you]
She shouldn't have a profile of ours to send unless she never sent our one to the first birthmom... or do the birthmoms send them back to the agency to be reused???
I'm sure agency policies vary, but has anyone ever heard of that? I guess I'm just concerned that she's telling us we're being presented and we're actually not, because she doesn't want to bother with us...
Any thoughts anyone? ↓
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