Why can you all not adopt kid's and babie's that are in care and need's family's there is alot of babie's that need home's.
I was put in care at 4 month's old and i got adopt by a loving careing family who i love know and that was all done in 2 months .
So why not adopt a child that is in need of a family big time and you would not now the real mum and dad so you could just be a family with no need to give money out .
Just try it there is alot of babie's in need for a family and maybe one day you could have a child.
jemma ↓
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| Name: teedee | Date: Apr 23rd, 2008 11:30 PM |
Hello,
You are so right! There are a lot of babies and even oldier children available for adoption and I can't speak for everyone, but I can honestly say that I have tried adopting a child through my state foster care system and was not approved because of something my husband did when he was 15 years old. I would also like to state that trying to adopt a child through an adoption agency is costly and time consuming. Which is why I choose this approach, it gives me the opportunity to meet, get to know, and if I am lucky find a birthmother who really has her unborn childs well being at heart and is willing to give a couple such as myself and my husband a second chance at being parents. If you know of any serious birthmoms who are considering place their african american or bi-racially mixed african american baby up for adoption, please have them send me an e-mail at: [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: caraway | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 12:45 AM |
| Name: jemmap | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 1:18 AM |
kk i will talk to my care worker and she if she can help and get you all a child just tell me your e-mail or you can e-mail me at [email protected] im not saying i can but i will try no one sould go with out having a baby so i will try and help you all
jemma ↑ |
| Name: monique48 | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 7:28 AM |
| We would like to adopt. We love children. IWe have 2 homes. One is in the country and the other in the city. Pleanty of room for a child to grow with love and care. We are in canada..Thanks for reading..love Da Momma and puppa who will love the child ↑ |
| Name: monique48 | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 7:31 AM |
| We would like to adopt. We love children. We have 2 homes. One is in the country and the other in the city. Pleanty of room for a child to grow with love and care. We are in canada..Thanks for reading..love Da Momma and puppa who will love the child ↑ |
| Name: KellyJude | Date: Apr 24th, 2008 4:21 PM |
| We would love to adopt infant up to 3 years - and have a beautiful adopted 3 year old, who we have had since birth. Please email me with the [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: annie7224 | Date: Apr 25th, 2008 1:02 AM |
Are you kidding we have tken all sorts of children the ones most in need and have tried to adopt them all. 18 children to be exact. But the foster system says its better for them to return to families that abuse and neglect them , Rather than give them to a stable loving family that is not a blood relation. We have even gone so far as to ask the birthparents for an open adoption and to allow them visits you know what they say No we get money housing and food if we keep them. I am not saying that all birhtparents who lose there right to parent temp don't deserve a second chance but come on all ready. We have put our dues in and for the last 8 years have had our hearts ripped out and stomped on. We are not looking for a perfect child or children/ Jsut a few that will blend into our family and our younger than our 10 yo daughter and 12 yo brother.
Ok I know you ere trying to help and I do appreciate your concern. We live in NY on Long island and have been foster parents for 8 years. It has been over a year since any child in our county has been removed from their birthparents. Which in its self is a good thing. I think. Anyway our goal is to grow our family thru adoption. We would love an infant because we never had the whole baby experience since our kids were adopted when they were older. In fact we never even fostered them another family had them and decided not to adopt yeah for us we are so blessed and hope to have a litlle sister or brother or both up to age 7 even 9 if the circumstances were right. I hope to hear from you soon [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: michelleabu | Date: Apr 27th, 2008 11:52 PM |
jemma,
How can one do what you are saying and not pay out thousands of dollars? I totally agree with you but if a person goes through such agencies they charge a phenominal rate. My husband and I can certainly afford to give a child a good life but cannot afford to pay $30,000 to do it. Advice please?
Thanks
Michelle [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: bekka1986 | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 11:50 AM |
| i get you i think this takes the piss out of the care system its like a baby shop. i came on here to get support after i was adopted but all i see is mothers trying to sell their children ↑ |
| Name: cjsims | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 12:25 PM |
| My baby's adoptive parents paid $10,000 just to sign up at an adoption agency. ↑ |
| Name: andreal527 | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 3:02 PM |
wow, 10,000 just to sign up, that is alot! I would rather see that money used on the baby or children. I had no idea the cost was that high. Thank you for sharing!
God Bless,
Andrea ↑ |
| Name: Lynne Banks | Date: Apr 29th, 2008 4:21 PM |
What country are you from?
Adoption doesn't happen like that here. It should be easier but it is not.
As far as not knowing the real mum and dad, as you put it. That is not always fair to the child. ↑ |
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