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Name: Carla

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I need some advice. My cousin was adopted 45 years ago. My aunt his adopted mother told him that she was his BIRTHMOTHER and that his father was unknown. My cousin has always belived this. Now here's the problem.. another cousin of mine is going to tell him that this is not true ( he is going to do this in a vendictive way ) I am very very close to my adopted cousin ( like my brother ) my question is this.Sholuld I tell my cousin first? Should I talk to my aunt and let her know what my other cousin intends to do? I don't want my cousin getting hurt!! Any advice will be appreciated. Thanks ↓

Name: Jess | Date: Nov 22nd, 2005 7:14 PM

Hi Carla,

Is there anyway you can tell your aunt the situation and convince her to tell your cousin herself? That would probably cause the least amount of damage I would think. ↑

Name: Joi | Date: Nov 26th, 2005 3:10 AM

I would tell your Aunt whats going on and together the two of you can come up with a game plan so that you cousin doesn't get hert. I would want to know before it happened if it was me. ↑

Name: me-sanchez | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 7:52 AM

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]Scammer Name: Juliedunesnet
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]Watch out for this woman as well. She is on here
]posting about scammers. But she herself is a scammer.
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]and they all (3 sets of parents) have been scammed by
]her. She has a contract that asks for a deposit once
]signed. Once that deposit is sent. You don't hear from
]her again. She is not a surrogate, not an ip, not even
]an egg donor. She is just a plain troublemaker. Starts
]trouble for legitimate people involved in surrogacy,
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Name: juliedunesnet | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 10:22 AM

Curious as to why she plucked this post from a year ago to put this on. ↑

Name: me2 | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 2:59 PM

Cause she is not very smart. ↑