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Many users on this site who are looking to adopt, do not want me to even suggest that pregnant women who log onto this site should use caution. Or that they should seek counseling from trained professionals to explore all of their options. Are they preying on young girls? Makes me wonder!!! ↓
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| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 4:47 PM |
| Luckey...No one here is preying on anyone. You need to stop trying to cause problems, it's getting real OLD. We have told people that come on here to use caution and common sense. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 4:58 PM |
| How about we agree to ignore each other. I will not post to any of the regulars on here. I will only post to the people who come on here stating they are looking for a home for a baby. I will warn them about this site and inform them of more safe options for themselves and their baby. However, next time I read a post from one of you referring to me, you can expect a reply from me!Have a nice day! ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 5:01 PM |
| sounds fair luckey...but i only ask one thing. If you do post to an new person, please don't go on and on about the same topic. I do belive that everyone has the right to their own opinion. But I have a problem with the other person is one sided in their thinking. Thanks, and I hope this is no hard feelings, none of this is personal. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 5:07 PM |
| I think it very clear that we both share very opposite opinions regarding this board. I don't think I will change your opinion, and I know that you won't change mine. Regarding what I will post in the future to pregnant women who come on this site is not any of your concern. Now lets just leave it at that. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 5:15 PM |
| I think that is the first thing that we have agreed on. But you stated that is none on my concern what you post to pregnant woman that come on here. I beg to differ...what training and knowledge to you have to councel a pregnant woman on here. You still haven't stated what role in the adoption world you play (adoptive parent, birth mom...etc). ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 6:02 PM |
momof1,
you seem like you just can't let this go. I don't plan on counseling pregnant women. I plan on warning them that this site is unmonitored and that there are better alternatives to seeking advice. Such as a crisis hotline, relative, counselor and so on. ↑ |
| Name: momof1 | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 6:09 PM |
| I'm done... I'm not in the mood to argue. But my comment on this subject, most people that come one here have common sense, and they will figure everything out on their own. They don't need someone to tell them that. I'm done!....."that's all folks" ↑ |
| Name: happy2bme | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 6:37 PM |
| Lucky_in_life. What is your problem? This board was setup as an adoption forum. In order to adopt these families HAVE to go through a home study with background criminal checks and home evaluations. These Birth Mothers wanting to place definetely are protected by the law to make sure that their babies are placed in good homes. It does not matter if it is private or agency adoption. I have adopted children. And they put the Adoptive family through thr ringer to make sure its okay. You seem to have a hidden agenda. Were you a birth mother yourself that placed? You seem to come on here to do nothing but cause confusion for these poor ladies that are already in a worrisome situation only to make everything worse. I for one wish they would ban you from this forum. Your not hear to help anyone. You have nothing better to do than to cause more grief for these women. Adoption is very safe these days. These babies are protected by the laws of the states. I am sure you have alot more to say. But as a mother of adopted children I am up for the challenge of you. I feel someone has to protect these women on both sides from the evil hurtful remarks from someone like you. One day you will answer for all that you do. I am experienced. And am ready to take you on. Find something in like good you can do for someone. I promise you will feel better about yourself if you do ↑ |
| Name: happy2bme | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 6:41 PM |
| Lucky_in_life. Find something in LIFE good you can do for someone. ↑ |
| Name: luckey_in_life | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 9:02 PM |
Happy2bme:
Unmonitored Chat Rooms are NOT places for adoptive parents to solicit birthparents. It is not appropriate for hopeful parents to post “I can help” messages, or internet addresses for birthmothers to visit, or to send this type of e-mail to birthmothers.
Conversely, it is not appropriate for birthparents to use the Chat Room to solicit adoptive parents. There is no way of knowing which parents on the message board are qualified to adopt.
I recommend that you search for licensed adoption agencies in your state. Any of these agencies can assist you with options planning. ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 9:07 PM |
There IS a way to know whether adoptive parents on here are qualified; write to the ones you are interested in, and ask them if they have an approved homestudy, the date it was approved, the name of the agency that conducted the homestudy, the name of the contact there, and their phone number.
That is the information you need. ↑ |
| Name: happy2bme | Date: Nov 5th, 2006 11:02 PM |
| ALL STATES do homestudies and back ground checks on adoptive families. There is nothing wrong with Birthmothers coming on adoption forums and looking for families. Or families saying we can help. You DO NOT have to go through an agency. I don't need to look anything up. I have 4 children throught private adoption that we got at birth. And a home study and back ground checks were done for each child. Its no different than word of mouth. Someone finding a baby from hearing about the child from someone else. You DO know who is qualified to adopt cause ALL STATES insist on homestudies if your going through an agency or private adoption. These women on both sides deserve the right to follow their own paths without constant badgering. ↑ |
| Name: mommyboo | Date: Nov 6th, 2006 12:23 AM |
| You need to get over yourself no one is here to pey on anyone we are all just trying to make friends and work on helping people out with adoptions.STOP acting like a know it all....NO ONE WANTS YOU HERE GET A CLUE ↑ |
| Name: me-sanchez | Date: Nov 8th, 2006 7:53 AM |
Type your message here:
]PLEASE NOTE: Names of posters have been removed to
]protect them from this evil bitch.
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]Scammer Name: Juliedunesnet
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]Watch out for this woman as well. She is on here
]posting about scammers. But she herself is a scammer.
]I was contacted by some ip's off a group that I am in
]and they all (3 sets of parents) have been scammed by
]her. She has a contract that asks for a deposit once
]signed. Once that deposit is sent. You don't hear from
]her again. She is not a surrogate, not an ip, not even
]an egg donor. She is just a plain troublemaker. Starts
]trouble for legitimate people involved in surrogacy,
]as well as, those who are scammers. She causes trouble
]for anyone that mouths off to her. She seems to be
]connected to a lady from Alabama, they often tag-team
]their scams. ? ↑ |
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