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Name: sarawoods
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The reason why I asked is because I had talked to some families who think it will be to hard to deal with twins. I am due with a boy and a girl. I had a few families ask me to let them just adopt the girl.
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Name: NUTHIEBANKS | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 9:22 PM
They should stay together for sure. That is so wrong of someone to ask you that, I think. Where are you from? I would love them both and be fortunate to be offered such a blessing of 2 rather than 1.
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Name: Gaylin | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 9:28 PM
Hi Sara,
My husband and I would love to adopt twins, my older brothers are twins, so I have alot of experience with them. I always hoped that if I were able to have more kids they would be twins, my mom had two sets,she lots the first set very early on. I would love the opportunity to tell you much more about our family, if interested please e-mail me back at [email protected] I hope to hear from you soon.

Sincerely,

Gaylin 

Name: bbaby2006 | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 9:28 PM
Hi Sara
Wow, I am amazed that someone would even consider splitting up a set of twins. I personally don't think that should ever happen. My husband and I have twin nephews, so we know how much fun they can be. We love the idea! Please feel free to email me if you would like to get to know more about us.
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Good luck,
Tracy 

Name: pwdrblu | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 9:53 PM
Sara,
Im not sure if you are checking both posts, so I figured that I would post my information again.. (We would LOVE to have a boy and a girl)

We are Kirk and Paula. We are a happily married couple that would love to open our hearts and home to your children!
We would love to share more information with you.

You may view our profile at: www.centerforadoption.com and click on "featured couples".

If you would like to speak with us, please email me at: [email protected]. If you would like, I will give you our phone number.

Take care !!

Paula 

Name: gina7273 | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 10:18 PM
Hello,
I would love to learn more about your situation. I wont carry on through this link so please email me and we can chat. Thanks and good luck with your decision. Gina
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Name: icechick | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 10:19 PM
I do not agree with splitting up the babies, as a Twin, me and my brother are nothing alike but we still have that twin bond, and I would be honored to talk to you, I would love to adopt them. Email me and we can chat. [email protected] 


Name: Pattyjb | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 10:58 PM
Well we would be THRILLED to adopt twins a boy and a girl.
Gosh could get a son and a daughter both at once!!!!!!
[email protected] we are a bit older, but that means more mature and more knowledgeable about babies and child rearing. 

Name: Dreamer | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:07 PM
Sara,
That is terriable how could someone EVEN think of splitting them up....arg We are hoping to adopt again and I would LOVE to send you our profile Please email me and we can chat
girl4 [email protected]
PS I am a stay at home mom and have LOTS of time for twins;-) 

Name: susanandscot | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:16 PM
My name is Susan and my husband is Scot. I know you've probably heard from a bunch of people already, but I thought I'd write in case you haven't made any decisions yet.

We have always said how much we'd love to have twins. We were in the process of adopting twin boys when the birth mother's sister decided to keep them. It was very heartbreaking. We still have our dreams of becoming parents together, so we continue to look for someone to help us.

It must be very hard, doing what you're doing. We have a tremendous amount of respect for your courage and your selflessness to put your baby's well being before your own.

We are financially secure, I don't work, so I'll be a stay at home
mom. We just bought our first house, it's in a quiet town in a safe environment with many activities for children.

I don't want to go on and on in this postl, I'm sure you've gotten
bombarded with too much information that way. Let me just say that, if we are blessed with the chance, we will dedicate our lives to your children's loving, safe, secure and happy future. We will encourage them to get the best education possible and we will give them direction and support necessary to allow them to pursue and reach their dreams, and they will be loved and cherished by us forever.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for considering us to parent your children.

We would love to talk with you and possibly send more information about us.

You can email us at [email protected] or feel free to contact us toll free at 866-837-7472.

We wish you the best, whatever your decision may be.


Susan and Scot 

Name: tamara anderson | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:28 PM
Sara,

Hello we are Tamara & Doak in Texas. We would love to speak to you about adoption. We have been hoping to adopt for about 2 yrs now. We have found some wonderful people here and of course some we would like to forget. Our first birthmom we spoke to was pregnant with twins. We knew forsure one was a girl but the other baby was very stubborn in the ultrsounds. May have been another girl being shy. LOL. She in the end found family support she thought she would not have and she parented her babies. And we were happy for her.
But, we would love to adopt twins. We really have decided that we only want to go through this process one time. This 2 yrs has been a bit crazy. So weither we find a birthmom with twins or just one beautiful baby we will have our family.
We are both in our mid 30's and very ready to bring our baby or babies home. We have a great family that supports us 110% and can not wait for us to call and say we found our birthmom.
:)
So if you have not found your family or couple yet we would love to talk to you. We have a post on www.adoptads.com (Tamara & Doak) also. Or can be reached at 832-434-4407 or [email protected]
We hope to hear from you.
Tamara 

Name: Joce | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:33 PM
Sarawoods.

HI. My personal opinion as a twin, would be to not split the children. I think it would be hard to live without my other half (my brother). I think a family would be doubling blessed to adopt twins. I would love it.
My cousin-in-law is a twin and his mother split the boys at age one. The mother kept one boy and placed the other boy for adoption. I know the adopted child has had difficulty with being the one not kept. Why him?
If you are still looking for a couple, my husband and I are looking to adopt. We would be overjoyed to adopt twins. Please email if you want to find out more about us.
Best of luck.
Jody 

Name: Pierrot | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:33 PM
Dear Sara-

To adopt your boy and your girl would be a dream come true for us!

I cannot even imagine how heartless someone could be that would ask you to split them up. That is horrible.

We would love your babies and give them a great life! We have an adopted child already, and he is a joy to us everyday! He would love to have a sister and brother!

Please write us at [email protected]

Thank you so much! 

Name: Joce | Date: Aug 22nd, 2006 11:33 PM
I forgot to add my email. I need an edit button.
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Name: califadoptee | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 1:03 AM
Sara - I left you a response on your other post.

With the trend of open adoption being more popular, it would seem in the best interest of your twins to be adopted by the same family. It may also be easier for you to maintain a relationship with them if they are in the same home.

Please feel free to email or IM me if you'd like to talk about this further. *See my response on your other post as well.

Take Care!
Susie (also an adoptee)
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Name: Flowergirl | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 1:46 AM
I replied to your other post before reading this one... Please, please don't split up your precious babies!!

There are so many loving parents who would feel sooo incredibly blessed to be given the opportunity to adopt both of your babies... I was a full time Nanny to *triplets* and busy as I was, there was plenty of time to hold, cuddle and love them and there was plenty of time for hugs, kisses, games, one on one time and lots of times we rocked all three in the same huge recliner... all of them on my lap!! They are now almost 2 and still love to do that and it is such a precious time! And I only have two arms, but I loved every minute of it!

Don't let *anyone* tell you to split up your babies!!! Please, please consider another family, who will love and care for both of them and be thrilled beyond words to have two beautiful babies at one time!!!

Warm regards, L 

Name: Melis | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 2:36 AM
I agree with everyone when they say that it is the bet thing to keep your twins together. I would in fact be so thankful to have two babies to love and cherish. My husband, Steve, and I always talk about how great it would be to be able to adopt twins, and we pray everyday that it will happen!
I would like you to get to know us so please email me!
[email protected]
Thanks!! And good luck to you.
Melissa 

Name: Melis | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 2:37 AM
Sorry, I meant best thing!! 

Name: Pattyjb | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 3:43 AM
I think twins would be awesome... [email protected]
parentprofiles.com James R and Patricia 

Name: 2poms4us | Date: Aug 23rd, 2006 4:47 AM
Hey Sara,

Spliting up your beautiful babies would be a tragedy! You must do all possible to keep them together. If you are looking to place or just looking into adoption there are some great websites to help you with your decsion- like birthmombuds.com, adoptionhelp.org, aboutadoption.com. There are millions of loving families looking to adopt and would love to adopt twins.
Our website is http://home.nc.rr.com/karenandphil and our toll free number is 1-866-814-0756. We are from North Carolina.
Best wishes to you and your babies,
Karen 

Name: nikkiandrob | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 7:24 PM
Sara,

Don't let anyone break up your babies for their own convenience. My younger brothers are twins and there's no doubt there's a lot of hard work involved: Two hungry mouths, two dirty diapers, etc. But they're a lot of fun and a great support for each other as they get older.
My husband and I are hoping to adopt and would love to hear from you. We live in Michigan. You can email [email protected] and we'd be happy to tell you more about ourselves. We wish you the best of luck! 

Name: baby2 | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 8:00 PM
Hi! Having a baby is life changing, from what I'm told, you just learn to work with it times 2! My mom is a twin and I can't image not having my aunt around (who is a second "mom" to me). I have always wanted twins because of their relationship. Take care, Erin 

Name: mommyboo | Date: Aug 24th, 2006 11:59 PM
WOW HOW COULD SOMEONE WANT TO SEPERATE THEM.SO NOT FAIR TO THE BABIES.I WOULD LOVE TO ADOPT BOTH OF THEM.I DONT LIKE POSTING ALL MY INFO ON HERE.WOULD YOU BE INTERESTED IN TALKING TO ME IN A MORE PERSONAL WAY?IF SO PLEASE EMAIL ME [email protected] THANK YOU 

Name: Pierrot | Date: Aug 31st, 2006 12:24 AM
Did anyone ever hear from Sara ? 

Name: Lookingtoadopt | Date: Aug 31st, 2006 12:49 AM
We are looking for twins.

http://www.parentprofil
es.com/profiles/db15103.htm
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If your sincere give us a call 

Name: Peabug | Date: Aug 31st, 2006 5:23 PM
Hello Sara, My name is Shannon and I am a 32yr old mother of 2 wonderful girls age 4 & 10. Although my husband and I are able to have more children of our own we have chosen adoption. We would love to open our hearts and home to your babies. I wont go into detail about our family or life in a public forum, but if you would like to talk with me, even if you only need support, feel free to email me [email protected]. I wish you luck in whatever you decide. 

Name: Wishingonastar | Date: Aug 31st, 2006 5:32 PM
Hi Sara,
There were so many sets of twins in my family, that growing up I was always told that I would have a good chance of having them too. It was my wish, but I have been unable to conceive at all. We opted not to go the fertility treatment route, and straight to adopttion, which has been very difficult....and sometimes very heartwrenching. I couldn't imagine being so lucky as to be able to adopt twins!!! I would be grateful for the opportunity to tell you more about us. If you are interested, please e-mail me at [email protected]. Whatever decision you make, I wish you and your babies all the best! 

Name: Hollyv310 | Date: Sep 1st, 2006 12:23 AM
Dear Birth mothers,
My husband & I have been trying to have a baby since day 1 of our marriage. After trying for years, our doctors have finally told us that it’s probably never going to happen for us. We have went through medications, procedures, stress, depression…..you name it, we’ve went through it. We are now looking for a baby to adopt & become a special part of our loving family. If you are currently pregnant & have decided to put your baby up for adoption, I would like to thank you. If it wasn’t for good hearted person like your self, people like me would never get the chance to have a child. If you would like to hear more about me & my husband & consider us for adopting your baby, feel free to email me. Thank you, Holly. email [email protected] 

Name: bluitexan20000 | Date: Sep 2nd, 2006 10:54 PM
yes twins are so hard to take care of but in the long run the joy in yr hearts oooooooooo its priceless i have twins it was so hard but u will get thru it 

Name: Deanna | Date: Sep 5th, 2006 1:51 PM
I have twins a girl and a boy, yes they were/are hard to have two at once, BUT I would never of thought to just take one of them and leave the other. Keep the children together. 

Name: schultz | Date: Sep 5th, 2006 6:51 PM
hi my name is gayle and my other half is steven we were looking through this sight and seen yours on the twins and we would love to talk with you and your family and get to know all of you as well as let you know about us thinking about twins sounds like a wounderful experince that we would love to share with you. I hope that you will contact us and let us know if your interested, please. we would love to have this chance in our lives. to love and nurture two children . email [email protected] 

Name: jenna | Date: Sep 6th, 2006 1:06 AM
Sarawoods,
We are Tom and Jenn. Please take a look at our profile I am a neonatal nurse so taking care of multiples is what I'm used to, also, our best friends have triplets. Email us at [email protected] or go to
http://www.parents.tk/cgi-bin/classifieds/cl
assifieds.cgi?db=seekingtoadopt&website=&langu
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