| i think that you should be choosey in an afamily for you r baby. it is your baby and your choice. my husband and i have been waiting to adopt for 4 years and i know how stressful it can be but in the long run the bmom chooses you because she believes your family is the best match for her unborn child.. it is not a choice that is up to the afamily, its up to the woman who is making that tough decision of giving up the life inside her... cmon people, no more drama.... the wait is long and hard but well worth it when you get picked and hopefully some day we will be chosen by a bmom, it will be the best day ..... ↑ |
I am always amazed at what freedom of speech can bring out in some people. Tamara, good for you for staying strong and doing what you believe in. Good luck to you all the way!
Tracy ↑ |
| Tamara: I am not one of those families that expressed an interest in adopting your baby. However, I feel obliged to respond. You do have a right of choice but I think an adoptive parents has an equal right to ask you why you preferred another family to them or why you preferred something that a family have have or may do as opposed to their family. You should understand that that little bit of information that you are so up in arms about could help to hightlight how a family can update their information or to make adjustment in their information. This is exactly why I prefer to go directly through an agency. Too many bowing and scraping goes on whenever a birthmom posts about adopting her baby. I can't believe some of the responses you received actually advocating your post. I would think the adoptive parents here would support each other. I am shocked! ↑ |
