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up my baby to people that can not have children of thier own. as i was reading these posts a sadness came over me. i feel so bad for all the people who cannot hold a bay in thier arms, and just would love to help them. but of course it would be a few years. maybe when i was like 19 or so. i understand how important having a child is, from growing up with small children my whole life. i was just wondering if [in a few yrs] if you think anybody would be interested, or do u htink im just crazy and this is something very very wrong to do? ↓
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| Name: Mrs. A.M. | Date: May 9th, 2006 5:48 AM |
I think your a very kind hearted young woman. I know some posts are very touching and hard to read and not feel anything ...I happen to be one of the many women on here that can't have babies.
Its wonderful the compassion you have for others....but please don't take on this kind of problem ....its not your problem. Be young and have fun...enjoy your years as a teen. Don't try to rush anything and if you still feel the urge to help couples please wait until your at least 23-24 years old.....that will give you time to finish school and get started in the job path you chose. Not to mention that by that time you may have met the special man to share your life with and this won't be just your choice...he will have to feel the same way.
I wish everyone could feel others pain as much as you do......there might just be a wonderful peace in the world if that was to happen. Thank you for your post hun. I hope you enjoy a very blessed life. ↑ |
| Name: tell your mom or dad | Date: May 9th, 2006 3:39 PM |
You will not get to make this choice on your own. You will need help given your age.
Go to an adult ↑ |
| Name: Maggie | Date: May 22nd, 2006 2:14 PM |
Okay... wow I'm 14 too I'm adopted, I like being adopted most of the time except when I get made fun of because of it. You need to know though that when you get pregnant you grow close to that child. My birth mother changed her mind 3 or 4 times before she made her final decision. She was 16 years old only a sophmore in high school. Her parents supported her a lot. You can help couples in other ways then getting pregnant just so that you can give another parent the chance to have a child. Like me, I'm planning on becoming a counsilor for pregnant teenagers hoping they will listen to me. Try something like that.
God bless you! ↑ |
| Name: Dreamsofchild | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 3:27 AM |
Anaisa why would anyone get pregnant of purpose? Unless they wish for a child It is a wonderful idea but having a baby grow inside you and then parting with that child can and is a heartwrencing experience yes woman do it every year but it is Not an easy choice. I am an adoptive mom by the way.
Dreams ↑ |
| Name: dktumlinson | Date: Jul 7th, 2006 6:16 PM |
| I lost a baby at 32, and have never been able to get pregnant again, and I want a baby. ↑ |
| Name: babygirl2006 | Date: Jul 8th, 2006 3:24 AM |
hello anaisa that is the sweet thing you want to do. I am 26 and have 2 boys i had my first at 15 and had my 2nd at 20 then when i was 23 the dr made me have a hysterectomy and i never got to have my lil girl but you are so yong ang when you feel that baby move you will be in love just give it some years and think about it .I would love for somone to do that for me .there is all kinds of things that could go wrong for you becouse of how youn you are .im just looking to adopt a girl
think about it girl . but thats sweet to thin of other people. but thik of your self .angie ↑ |
| Name: christie29 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 7:01 AM |
| hey,anaisa.due to your age I can not advice you to get pregnant,although that is areally nice thought!However if you do decide to have a baby I would love the chance to adopt your child.I am a stay home mother.my husband and I share alot of love and would love to pass that love to your baby.if you would like to email me and then I will give you our #[email protected] best wishes,and God Bless! ↑ |
| Name: Anne | Date: Oct 8th, 2006 9:39 PM |
Babyieangel-
You are too young to adopt, you will never pass a homestudy which is the first step to adoption. ↑ |
| Name: apurrfectplace | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 10:55 AM |
Anaisa, you have a kind heart. But you are 14. Too young to have a baby for yourself, let alone for someone else. Please focus on school and friends and your family... and someday when you are older, you can revisit the decision.
Those of you who posted here that are waiting parents... WHAT ARE YOU THINKING? Encouraging a 14 year old, who has not lived her life, to have a baby FOR YOU? What the heck? Shame on you!
Tammi ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 11:06 AM |
Tammi,
I agree with you wholeheartedly; anyone who is encouraging a minor to get pregnant for them is outrageous.
The most recent person who has done so is only about to be 19, so that speaks volumes in itself. Very shameful.
But in Anaisa's post, she also says she is talking about doing so when she herself is 19 or so, so why these people are responding to Anaisa and encouraging her to do so now is beyond me.
Babyieangel and others, ask yourself this; would you want your daughter getting pregnant , especially at 14, a MINOR, just to give the baby to someone else ? The answer is NO !
You have alot of growing up to do yourselves if you say differently.
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 11:13 AM |
Oh Babieangel,
When you do go to get your homestudy done when you are old enough for you to do so, why don't you tell your social worker that you encouraged a minor to get pregnant for you and please let us know her reply..................
Carolyn ↑ |
| Name: mommyinwaiting | Date: Oct 9th, 2006 11:41 PM |
| Dear anaisa, what a very sweet and kind thought you have had. And waiting to do something like that when you are an adult is great. Now the down side honey, there are a lot of hormones that pregnancy brings out and it can be very uncomfortable and even painful delivering. Your heart is in the right place. When you are older and still want to do this I encourage you to consider becoming a surrogate mother. It could help to put you through college, just a thought. You are right it is very painful not to be able to have children on your own. And NO you are not crazy, but it sounds like you are very generous! ↑ |
| Name: maria1987 | Date: Nov 30th, 2006 10:21 AM |
| hi my name is maria i am 19 very inpendent i am very interest in a infant because i think its a blessing to have kids because i cant if u concern please contact me god bless ↑ |
| Name: maria1987 | Date: Nov 30th, 2006 11:10 AM |
| please contact me at my email [email protected] ↑ |
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