she is 5 weeks pregnant right now and not will ing to let anyone adopt the child but me... she also is very sure that she is not keeping it. i am only 20. i have been with my husband for 2.5 years and we have no intention of having kids yet. we are not looking for childrten... i did not ask her to be a surget mother for me. i have no problem lending her my shouldar to cry on and no problem supporting her until she has the baby. BUT I DO NOT WANT HER TO DUMP IT ON ME. this might sound selfish and mean to some of you out there but i am not capable of caring for a child yet. i am only 20 and i am in the process of getting my degree. my husband is away for monthes at a time so i would be alone for 7-9 monthes out of the year.....i dont know what to do i want to help my friend but not at my own expense.... i cant sacrifice the next 20 years of my life for my friends child......i dont even know if i want children i am scared and desperate i dont want this baby but i want to help my friend.....
my email is [email protected] ↓
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| Name: pris2504 | Date: Jan 16th, 2006 3:43 PM |
| The best thing to do for your friend is to be honest with her...Just tell her that there is no way that you are capable of raising a baby right now either...but that you are willing to help her find some one that will....If you need anymore help email me at.... [email protected] her parents not know yet? ↑ |
| Name: UMMMM | Date: Jan 20th, 2006 11:04 PM |
| Hi so you want some one to adopt your friends baby? is that what I am reading? are you talking to any one at this point? do you have any family in mind? ↑ |
| Name: Jennifer | Date: Jan 21st, 2006 1:53 AM |
| Yes you need to tell her how you feel, so she can find someone eles to adopt the baby. She is only 5 weeks so she has plenty of time to look. With open adoptions she can pic out the family and have contact with them. I was adopted myself so I know it can be a wonderfull thing, just support her and be a good friend but you dont have to give up your life to raise her baby if your not ready. YOu didnt get pregnant! ↑ |
| Name: Carolyn & Louis | Date: Jan 21st, 2006 5:43 AM |
Dear Clair:
I read your post, and perhaps your friend would consider us to adopt her baby ? My husband is also in aviation. Mine is a pilot........is yours also ?
Please share this with your friend, and you or if she is interested in having us adopt her infant, please call us toll free at the number below.
HI ! We are Carolyn & Louis, and are hoping to adopt a baby to love. Thank you so much for reading about us, and considering us as parents for your little angel(s).Your strength and love for your baby is an inspiration for which we are grateful.
Louis and I have been happily married for almost 14 years. We want to share our love and adopt a baby or twins, as we are are unable to conceive ourselves. We tried numerous attempts at fertility treatment for years that never resulted in a pregnancy despite all of our prayers.We are Episcopal, so he or she will be Baptized and raised in the Christian faith.
We can offer your baby a wonderful, financially stable, and joyful life. We live in a quiet,residential area of Colorado,and own our beautiful four bedroom home on a dead end street. The baby`s bedroom already awaits with a picture window, overlooking our backyard; Deer and bunnies are prancing on our property daily. We live very close to parks and playgrounds with stunning views of the Rocky Mountains.
Lou and I both have excellent positions; Lou is a pilot for a major airline, and I am a corporate sales representative for a nationally known company. The baby will enjoy an active lifestyle. We belong to the local pool club, and enjoy skiing weekends and enjoy special family vacations regularly.
We are both college graduates, so we understand the importance of an outstanding education,which we will provide the baby. He or she will have the best life has to offer.
We are flexible as to open or closed adoption, the choice is yours. We want you to be completely comfortable with us !
Please consider us as parents for your little angel, and complete the family we have always wished and prayed for. Thank you for taking the time to get to know us, and most of all for being so special for choosing life.Please email us,or call us TOLL FREE ANYTIME.God bless you.
Gratefully,
Carolyn & Louis
TOLL FREE (Home) 1-800-643-2962
[email protected] email
Read more about us and see pictures at: http://www.adoptionready.com/carolynandlouis/ ↑ |
| Name: kim | Date: Jan 23rd, 2006 11:30 PM |
| me and my husband have been married 13 yrs and would love to adopt her baby and if she needs a forever home we could talk about that please email me and i can give you my number love always [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Hey | Date: Jan 31st, 2006 11:37 PM |
| Would love to talk to you about the baby! Have you located a family! Thanks ↑ |
| Name: raegan | Date: Feb 1st, 2006 12:39 AM |
I would love to talk with you adn your friend. I live in Florida with my fiance' adn we own our own business and home. Very invloved with family and friends are supportive. email me at
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: Fatherfigure | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 5:00 AM |
| i want more than anything to raise a child i have alot of experience because i am helping my sister raise her 5 kids but being a good uncle is not want i want being a good father is all that i need if you want to be apart of ur childs life then this would be perfect cause i just want to sign the birth certificate as the father and raise my child with no financial help from the mother the only thing i would like from the mother is to call or visit me as the father will previde all the love and support needed but i still would like my child to know what he or she has a mother that loves them so with that being said if you are interested in being my baby mama e-mail me [email protected] ↑ |
| Name: hedi_eh | Date: Jun 23rd, 2006 2:17 PM |
Dear Clharford,
We are sure there is a holy baby waiting for our love as much as we are waiting for her/him
It is hard when we feel our situation is the most scary and impracticable one in the world but it is so nice when we accept giving hand to each other to make a wonderful bridge for a holy gift’s fortune and lord show us the way easily.
We have been married for 5 years and adoption has been our strong-first choice to have a baby. We love each other and we decided to start our life together looking for a baby who is waiting for our love some where in this round world.
We are young educated couple from gentle and understanding families. We both have a hand in art and music
We love to give all we have from love, happiness, health, and safety to wisdom, art, and much more to the holy gift- baby- who is waiting for us.
If you are the generous one who is supposed to realize our dream by connecting us to the holy gift from lord please contact us.
We are all for this amazing journey and it brings peace and happiness for 4 of us.
We promise.
Looking forward to hear from you
[email protected] ↑ |
| Name: dktumlinson | Date: Jun 26th, 2006 6:35 AM |
| You need to sit your friend down, after she moved in and things calm down. Pick you time, wait until both of you are comfortable, and sit down and have a good heart to heart, and let your friend know, that it is too soon for you, and maybe you or she or your families know of someone one of you know, that might want, or really looking to adopt. Ask you parents, relatives and friends, chances are their is someone ya'll know, and who your friend would feel comfortable adopting her baby. ↑ |
| Name: christie29 | Date: Jul 27th, 2006 10:34 PM |
| I am so sorry to hear about the tough situation that you are in.I feel that if you and your friend are really as close as me and my bf that you can tell h er anything and that she will understand.my husband and i have 2 beautiful children and would love to add one more,we would even agree to open adoption so that she and you could be a part of the childs life as well.please update us on this situationwe are so praying for a baby.God Bless and Best Wishes to all involved in this.Once we receive your email I will send you our # so we can be there for emotional support if thats what you need.Maybe its hard for you to talk to your best friend at this point,so Im here if you need someone.my email is [email protected] ↑ |
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