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Name: tamarayoung

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Not everyone views time spent with children the same way. It's funny how some people get mad over what other people think and get made over other peoples opinions and get over what birthparents want in a family. some get mad over who a birthmom picks and why she picks who she does. its up to the birthmom who she picks and no one elses business. I think 4 hours a day is fine. the woman who is adopting my baby has weekends off and she spends the weekends with her other adopted child. birthmoms can pick a family for any reason. I dont owe an explanation to why I picked this woman and I dont owe an explanation for my opinions or beliefs and why I feel and think the way I do. I think some people get mad because their not the ones picked to the parents. ↓

Name: Pierrot | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 6:43 PM

Tamara,

Who you pick is up to you, sure.

Good luck to you. ↑

Name: gapeach | Date: Sep 3rd, 2006 11:57 PM

YOU HAVE TO MAKE THE DECISION....EVERYONE ELSE SHOULD BE HAPPY FOR YOU AND SUPPORT YOUR DECISION!
GOOD LUCK! ↑

Name: lindalu | Date: Sep 4th, 2006 12:04 AM

I agree with the other two posts, It is your decision! Dont let any one get you upset because of who you chose! Good luck I hope all is well for you and your child. ↑

Name: Carolyn | Date: Sep 4th, 2006 2:46 AM

Best of luck. ↑

Name: BRENDA N RICHIE | Date: Sep 4th, 2006 6:36 PM

Dont worry what others say, didnt I tell you that. You follow whats in your heart. I dont think these couples are attacking you their just upset. There are alot of couples that cant have a child it is mentally draining to be turned down time after time. Although its not right to go after you either. ↑

Name: seal | Date: Sep 4th, 2006 7:22 PM

Tamara,
Don't pay any attention to negativity. This is all totally your decision and you are right, you do not own anyone an explaination of your decisions. I wish you the best of luck.
Blessings,
Seal ↑